Neculai Fantanaru

Everything Depends On The Leader

A Just Punishment For Carson Wells

On January 19, 2013
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Leadership On/Off by Neculai Fantanaru

Exercise your power to be the master of your own life, without getting anchored to a reality that does not correspond to the balanced vision over what you are.

In the movie "No country for old men (2007)" we surprise Carson Wells into a hypostasis of a man satisfied of himself. This fugitive spirit, always in search of treasures, young, brave, quick, optimistic to the bone, vaccinated against all forms of unhappiness or sadness, this bright ivory maintained only by his resistant nature, lives in the naive faith that everything takes place into his advantage; that time, things, people, everything is working in his favor.

Stimulated by a higher energy, Wells seems to be protected by a force that could shatter, sometimes brutally, any opponent. Self-control was the essential manifestation of his nature. Through the place he occupied among other people, as well as by the fact that he was more rarely around danger, we would say that for him there was only one good, the one to act as his own Ego dictated, with the appearance of a warm and bright sun settled over a world without fog.

But his place in the world becomes more and more sombre as time passes. Everything it is questionable, a true capitulation of the will, a spontaneous rusting from the inside, une conversion de la personnalité . For because of his excessive zeal, in the try to recuperate a bag full of money, arise another kind of man, a kind of imperfect competition that was in ill odour on the world’s stage. All the elements which compose the present of Wells also reflect on those around him, especially on his enemies.

This sphere of the will and ability enlightened by optimism upwards, into immeasurable, enlarged towards impossible, projected against the background of the personality’s deformation that partly merges with the idealism, goes against the cruel reality. In every case, its outline is covered by incomplete forms of renewal and recovery of his own qualities. Does the way that Wells choose is so empty, that to finally bury any good and useful landmark?

Leadership: Do you accept to become the image of a new version of the impetus towards the immeasurable, experiencing the effect of the hazard by exemplifying a self-satisfaction that is illusory?

The foolish does not realize that there are more important things in the world, such as life. His life. And when he feels the danger, it is already too late. His courage is not a visible and a virile one anymore, but is transformed into a swallow, which floating lugubriously takes its final flight, unable to raise any wings of hope. A sour and free defect of his confidence, fatally hit by the obscure presence of a ghost, his fearful rival, the ruthless assassin, el desperado - Anton Chigurh.

However, his hypertrophied pride does not accept defeat. Like a Hermes fixed on the thought to rob the temple of Apollo from Delphi, fearless of his anger, Wells forces his luck turning on the muddy realm of Chigurh, in order to steal the bag of money under his nose. And exactly because of this impetus, just as slippery as ice, he is caught off guard. Realizing in the last moment that the enemy is stronger, appeals to conciliation.

Leadership: How is the doubt of what life offers to you reflected on the truth behind the experiences that individualize you as the vulnerability of a subjectivity assumed all the way?

An obstacle, an injustice? All that now lies in Wells, whatever it could make him satisfied, no longer gushes with the speed of the bullet as aforetime. An absurd and an undeserved shake, a crumbled life, as if it was sand. Only now, when he is caught in the deadly claws of the eagle, the love for life pours and spreads fully through his blood.

Unfortunately, he can no longer change anything. A slow peace, a capitulation calmly supported le malaise d'un vain désir . It is tightening even more the terrible trap of destiny, then closes suddenly. The only truth behind the experiences that individualizes this latter optimist, as the vulnerability of a subjectivity assumed all the way, is that he must accept suffering, precisely in order to transcend it.

And always suffering accepts death more easily. The judgment was carried out justly, a deserved defeat. For the man who does not value enough his life, and the true values that it brings into his path, is not given to fly above, to conquer the highest peaks. The destiny does not grant him than only rarely some subsidies, most often charging him with the maximum interest rate.

Leadership: Are you ambitious to embrace the immeasurable incidence of being caught in the gear of an intrigue that keeps you in suspense until the moment you realize it’s too late to return to what you were?

Does your place in the world become more and more sombre as time passes? Is everything within you under question? Is the path that you choose so empty that to finally bury any good and useful landmark? Are you trying to impose yourself on the muddy ground of an unhealthy obsession?

As a force of attraction between the positive and negative charges, the two magnetic poles "to be" and "not to be" are the dependent points on the dimension of your personality. Approaching, they intersect or overlap depending on the role that you assume in everyday life, and depending on the personality reported to the surrounding reality.

And the way you look and plan your future - not only in terms of the expectations, but also of the actions, more or less acknowledged, whose resultant is your becoming determines the decisions that you take and the way you behave in each situation.

Because you - the man, who can judge and assess things on their true value – you do not have only the duty to ask yourself and determine, objectively, what exactly it reserves your destination towards which you tend, the concern for balance and responsibility, but also the possibility of wishing a certain future, and therefore the duty to fight for it.

The duty to fight for change, for a new cause, or to be more than you are, is the one that circumscribes the horizon of the lucidity and causality, where the possible and real are updated over your whole life, forged with patience, hope and respect.

This is the essence underlying leadership, and at the same time that issues one of the FISH principles: "Choose your attitude - take responsibility for how you respond to what life throws at you" Once you are aware that your choice involves all those around you, ask yourself:

How do your choices help you to be the person you want to be? How do reflect all elements of your character over those around you?

Leadership: Do you fight for the values of the quality of being an outsider of an unlimited personality, without being influenced by the degree of reception of experiences that are amplified by your lack of corrective reaction to yourself?

A good leadership can have a positive impact, primarily, over your own personality. A form to get actively involved in your change for the better, a form of firm riposte, a form of fighting for what is right to be, for the appropriate values of the quality of being a Man. Leadership, this tool of forming another type of personality, helps you "awake" before plunging forward towards mediocrity.

Carson Wells had the impression that life was becoming better as pushing the "piston" of the present towards a future limited only at his horizon, having the belief that holds on all the control.

Nevertheless, this way of thinking, this superficial layer of illusion, erupting like a volcano, always repeatedly, actually took him to nowhere, causing despair and confusion. Claustration into a private sphere, one of the individual interests.

His values were degradable, calculated, cultivated and cared only by the simply adding of the option "On / Off" creating even more doubts about his life. A character who perceives life, the world, everything through his own defects.

May you be too "on the wave of change", but to get involved in the wrong script? Are you anchoring, as to a submerged log, to a reality that does not relate to your true beliefs?

Being an outsider of an unlimited personality means breaking away from what you know you’ve experienced without noticing and opening yourself up to just one approach to life based on three qualities: protecting self-esteem, restraint in what regards the exaggeration of personal importance and the ability to oppose any vanity.

A Just Punishment For Carson Wells expresses a reality: the more you move away of the specific human qualities, the triggering element towards excellence fails to appear, even if your will is enough strong. And that horizon of rediscovery is more and more limited on the extent of repelling the values, favoring the appearance and development of the leadership.

Just as the human body, with all its bio-morpho-psychological is the common denominator of all the sporting activities, even so the increased quality of life is the common denominator for fixing more stronger those qualities necessary for the leadership.

Exercise your power to be the master of your own life, without getting anchored to a reality that does not correspond to the balanced vision over what you are.

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