Mirage yo kuvumbura ibidashoboka

On February 05, 2010, in Real Leadership, by Neculai Fantanaru

Ntushobora kugera kuri "bidashoboka" udakosora ubusembwa bwawe.

Icyo gihe nari mfite imyaka umunani gusa, ariko nibuka neza umunsi wizuba ryizuba, igihe nari nicaye mucyumba nzima ndeba mama arashushanya. Nzi ko kwibuka bishobora rimwe na rimwe gukina amayeri umuntu, ariko ntabwo ari kuri njye, kwibuka uwo munsi bizahora ari muzima.

Mama yishimisha yamye ashushanya, yamye yerekanye inyungu zidasanzwe kubuhanzi no gushushanya, kubintu byose byiza kandi byiza. Aracyafite imyumvire idasanzwe. Kugira ibitekerezo bikungahaye, ahora yongeraho ikintu gishya ku bishushanyo cye: Umucyo, igicucu, umurango, umucyo cyangwa imiterere ishimishije, ariko burigihe uhora ukomeza ibipimo. Yari azi gushyira ibyiyumvo bye mubishushanyo. Yari azi gukora itandukaniro riri hagati yingenzi kandi idafite akamaro, ariko yari afite igipimo muri byose.

Ibyo ari byo byose, ibyo byose nyuma ya saa sita yashushanyije ubudahwema, kugeza igihe ari umwijima. Namwitegereje irangi rye, aho yakoraga icyumweru cyose, nkaho ari umuntu ukomeye. Byari nkishusho yavuye mu kinyamakuru, niko byari byiza. Amababi ya Rose, umutuku nkumuriro, imirasire yizuba ryanyerera mumababi, muri parisi ya porcelain yari ifite amakoperatique ntoya yubushinwa yanditseho, inkwi yijimye Imbonerahamwe, bose baremye imibereho, isobanutse cyane, nziza, nziza.

Ubuyobozi: ni igipimo cya gikuru usize inyuma nukuntu uhagarariye uburyo bwo hanze ibintu cyangwa ishingiro?

Nabonye, ​​nshakisha neza irangi, ko abantu bake bashoboraga gusiga irangi ikintu cyiza. Irangi ryarenze ikintu cyose gitekereza. Ntabwo byari bidasanzwe muburyo bwose. Narabyegereye mutangara, kwibaza bite byarakozwe neza, kuri indashyikirwa no kwikunda.

Mama abonye reaction mumaso, mama yarambwiye ati:

- Igishushanyo ni cyiza, ariko ugomba kumenya ko gifite ubusembwa bwinshi. Ntabwo ari byiza nkuko ubitekereza kandi nkuko nabizeye ko bizaba. Ndacyafite byinshi byo kwitoza. Reba Shanks Shanks. Ntabwo nabikoze gato ...? Reba vase. Ntabwo ari ntoya cyane kuri ayo maroza ...? Reba amababi nashushanyije. Bahuje nabari muri vase? Ntabwo bagura cyane kandi inyama nyinshi ...? Kandi rero.

Yakoze agace gato hanyuma arakomeza:

- Hano haribindi bishushanyo byinshi bifite ubuhanga kundusha. Bizaba kera mbere yuko ngera kuba umuhanzi nyawe, mbere yuko ngera ku bidashoboka.

Ubuyobozi: Ni bangahe wishora muri "umukino uwo uri we"?

Yego! Ndashobora kuvuga ko duhamya o guhinduranya impinduramatwarangurana, ipfunyitse mu itandukaniro no gucogora, hanyuma bishyirwa mumikino itigeze yongera imbere kuva yavumburwa. Byerekeranye na "umukino wuwo uriwe", uhagarariye ishingiro ryukuri ryagaciro kawe, uhujwe nimpano yawe, usama mubikorwa bifatika, bikozwe n'umugambi.

Ni ukubera iki bishimishije kubona ukuri kwo mubyukuri? Kuki uyu mukino uzenguruka abantu bose kwisi? Kuki bishimishije kuruta poker cyangwa amafaranga? Kuberako udashobora gutsinda ingufu, kuko igiti cyatanzwe nuburyo usobanura ukuri. Hano ibintu byose biterwa nuburyo ubona iyo uhuye nubugingo bwumvikana nuwawe hanyuma, uburyo ubona iyo uhuye nibikorwa byawe bwite.

Ubuyobozi ni uburambe bwo kubona ibihangano byerekana neza muburyo bukomeye bwa toni zisumba izindi mva yuko umuntu usanzwe.

Iyo ushakishije umwanya wawe bwite kugirango umenye umwirondoro wawe, wibande kuri izo ngingo zibona nuburyo bwo kwegera isuzuma ryibikorwa nibikorwa byabo, uba ukora imyizenguzi zishoboka nyuma zihinduka imico myiza. Kandi iyi mico, muri rusange yerekana urwego rwo gukura wabonye, ​​shiraho isano yegereye hagati yawe, uwo uriwe ninde uzahinduka uwo ari we kandi uwo uzaba uwo.

Imico myiza iragaragaza ibyiza muri twe, kuba ingenzi cyane kubwiterambere rirambye ryimiterere, mugihe ibuza ikwirakwizwa ryiyongereyeho cyane ryitwa "Hasi. Uku gusuzuma cyane bigaragarira muburyo butandukanye muburyo bukabiri bwikigereranyo ubwacu busaba gusa.

Ubuyobozi: Ubana na kwibeshya ko ufite imbaraga mu buryo budasanzwe uhagarariye kurwego rwambere rwo kwishyira hamwe kw'ibiganiro byo gukora no kwakira ibisobanuro bishya by'uburebure?

Kuri uwo munsi, nize isomo ryagaciro: Ntabwo ibintu byose bisa nkibidasanzwe nabyo byakozwe neza. Icyasaga nkubwiza, kubwijisho ryumuhanzi nyawe, byagerageje gusa kandi nibyo. Hariho bake bashobora gutsinda mukuri ikintu bidasanzwe, ikintu kirenze ibitekerezo byose. Ariko, benshi bagwa kumutego naguye kuko birengagije rwose ibisobanuro kandi kubera ko atari ibihangano byiza byubuhanzi. Umuntu wese arashobora "gusoma" gushushanya mubumenyi bwabo, ariko ntabwo abantu bose ari umuhanga mumurima ushobora kumva neza kandi asengera umurimo wubuhanzi.

Ubuyobozi, kimwe no gushushanya, nubuhanzi. Ikibazo cyanjye ni: Ni bangahe mu bafite imyanya ikomeye ifite impano yo kuba abayobozi? Ni bangahe muri bo bazi ko bakorana n'abantu? Ni bangahe muri bo batsinze neza abo bayobowe, ni bangahe muri bo bafite charisma, ni bangahe muri bo bateye akamaro, ni bangahe muri bo bakora inshingano z'ibyo bakoze?

Lundidity ningaruka zo gutekereza kumurimo wubuhanzi wavutse ukwishingikiriza no gukosora ubusembwa bwawe.

Kuberako bamwe batekereza ko aribyo, niyibigize umwuga mwiza, mubyukuri, bakaba ubumuga gusa, kuva, kubwamahirwe, benshi ni babi iyo batekereje ko ari abanyamwuga beza nabayobozi bafite impano. Kubera iyo mpamvu, ntekereza ko ari ngombwa ko abantu bamwe bakingura ibintu neza kuri ukuri, mbere yuko bitinda.

Rimwe mu makosa yakozwe nabantu murwego rwo hejuru nuko bashaka kugera kuri "bidashoboka" vuba, badakosoye ubusembwa bwabo. Ntibazi intege nke zabo, aho bagarukira, ntibazi uko babibona, ntibemera kunegura (nubwo, bigaragara ko babishaka) kandi, barengewe icyifuzo gikomeye cyo kurushaho kuba kinini Birashimishije, biremera ko bakora muburyo butari bwo. Aho kugerageza guhindura imitekerereze yabo no gushyira ingufu kugirango bitezimbere rwose, bahorana nabo kwibeshya ko ari benshi.

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