Umutima ukonje watatanye mubusa

Umuyobozi yizeye abandi bantu mugihe ameze neza yagaragaye muri bo.

Imyaka myinshi irashize Mercedes yakundanye numumarayika. Ntiyashoboraga kubeshya. Yari azi neza umuntu mwiza, hamwe n'ibimenyetso bitonda, guhanga, gukomera, guswera, yarahagaze ubu, nyuma yimyaka irenga 16, imbere ye. Yari umuntu w'inyangamugayo, ukora cyane, gutinyuka, bahuye n'ibibazo byinshi, ibibazo n'ingorane zishobora gutungana ubwo butunzi bwose nibikorwa byose muri societe.

Ariko Edmond Dantes, Aka Kubara Monte Clisto ntiyashoboraga gukuraho ibitekerezo bye cyane byo kwihorera, ntibashobora kumucamo uruhare rwamutereranye kandi yumvise gusa uruhande rwe rubi rw'ubugingo. Ntiyashoboraga guhindura iyo myifatire yo kwanga ibyiyumvo byose kuri we. Ntiyari izwi kandi atinya kubura ibyo yari afite byose; Urwango, ntiyashakaga gusubira mu ntambara yatsindiye, adashaka kwiyangiza.

Kugira ngo wirinde ikibazo giteye isoni, kwirinda gutanga igisubizo ejo hazaza gusa bizamuha, Edmond yabajije Mercedes kutagerageza uburyo ubwo aribwo bwose bwiyunga:

- Niba wigeze unkunda ... ntukafate urwango rwanjye. Byose mfite.

Hamwe n'ubumva cyane abantu bakora ku kababaro gakomeye k'umutima, hamwe n'ibiryo byose bishoboka, mercedes, bumva umutima we umenagura igituza ngo aburanishe Edmond Kumubabarira no kubyutsa urukundo rwahoze:

- Sinzi gahunda yijimye iri muri Edmond. Sinzi impamvu twahatiwe guturamo nta yindi muri iyi myaka 16 yose. Ariko Imana yaduhaye intangiriro nshya. . . Ntukakubite ikiganza yaguhaye. . . Imana iri muri zose. Ndetse no gusomana ...

Ubuyobozi: Wizeye abantu mugihe ubibonye muri bo "flick" ko wifuza ko bakubona muri wewe?

Ibisobanuro bishya uhaye ubuzima nicyizere cyinshi cyicyizere kidahungabana mugihe icyo aricyo cyose gisa nkibigoye - nko kwigira ni ngombwa kandi udasohozwa mugihe cyubucuti nurukundo.

Urukundo ntirugira iherezo kuko urukundo rwavutse muri kiriya gice cyacu kitigera gipfa. Ndatekereza, ubu ni ubutumwa bwa firime"Kubara Monte Cristo"Biteganijwe na Kevin Reynolds mu 2002. Mercedes yoroheje roho ya Edmond Dante yuzuyemo gutenguha, yasimbuye urwango rwe n'urukundo. Yaramurokoreye mu gihe yabonaga ko yazimiye ubuziraherezo, adashobora guhunga umutego wahise ye, mu mutego w'ubugingo bwe bwabaye ingorane z'ubuzima.

Umutima ukonje wasimbuwe nu gishyushye. Ibyiyumvo bye byose byo gucika intege, kurwana, gutenguha, kwigunga, bitatanye uhereye kumurimo we ubuziraherezo. Urukundo yatwaye Mercedes yirukanye imibabaro ye yose. Ubuzima bwe bwafashe ibisobanuro bishya, iminsi myinshi nijoro yo gutegereza byarangiye.

Yongeye kubona mu busore bwe bwite, indangagaciro, ibyifuzo, ibyifuzo n'ibinezeza, nuko amubabarira. Yamubonye muri we ibyo yabuze mu buzima bwe bwose, amubona muri we umuntu ushoboye kongera guhunga ubuzima, ibyo yagezeho, ubuzima bwe na rusange. Yizeraga ko azemeza ko amahoro yo kwifuza k'umuntu uwo ari we wese.

Ubuyobozi: Ivugurura ryimyizerere yawe bwite rirashobora gukorwa no guhuza ibintu bitandukanye rwose, guhera muburyo bwumwuka bwisi yanze gutera intambwe nziza yo kuyobora inzira zawe?

Kugira ngo wumve ibipimo nyabyo byo guhishurwa bishobora guhindura isi yawe yose, ibuka ibi:"Kumwenyura byagaragaye birashobora kongera kutwika iyo umuntu incagent ahagaze iruhande rwacyo."

Imana ni nziza kandi buri gihe ihemba abakiranutsi bababarira no kwizera urukundo. Umuganda wasimbuye urwango n'urukundo; Yari azi mumutima we ko ashaka ko abanyamuryango nka batagifuzwa numugore numugabo. Igihe kimwe yamubabariye ko ibyiyumvo byubusa nububabare bwinjiye mubugingo bwe bwarashize. Umuntu wakundaga cyane, wabaga kera, yamuhaye umutwaro munini w'ubugingo bwe.

Iyo ubushyuhe bwubuzima bwumuyobozi bugiye kuzimya, agomba gushaka intego nshya cyangwa impamvu zo kubyutsa, nkuko bibara byagenze. Iyo ubushyuhe bwubuzima bwe buzimye, cyangwa bugiye gutanga, birakenewe kubona izindi ntego nshya.

Intambwe nkuru zo kuyobora inzira zawe zubuzima zirashobora guhitana mugihe ushobora guhuza hagati yisomo umuntu agomba kwiga numuntu uvugwa, bitabaye ibyo ubona ko ari karma mbi yuwo muntu ukabona kubabara mu cyimbo cyabo.

Ihuriro ry'ibintu biteye isoni burundu bitera kwiteza cyane bisoza amarangamutima akomeye ugomba gukuramo "ishingiro rihari."

Umwanzuro:Wizere, iyi gem idasanzwe kugirango iboneyo itoroshye kuburyo ishobora kubura umwanya uwariwo wose, cyane cyane iyo wowe, nkumugabo cyangwa nkumuntu wawe magara wabaye abanzi bawe benshi.

Muri ibi bihe, byaravutse, byoroshye kubyumva, kwihorera byose - abantu benshi cyangwa abadafite icyaha cyangwa umwengo. Ubushishozi ku giti cyabo ni ingenzi cyane muri ibi bihe. Urebye neza uzabona ko muri bamwe muribo utabonye mugihe cyigihe wifuza ko ubona muri wewe, nkubushobozi bwo kubabarira no gukuramo ibintu byose bikabije, aho umutima wawe ukonje uzasabira ubusa.

Ntituzigere na rimwe twibagirwaKu wa kabiri, uburakari mu bakiranutsi bwavutse ku wa kabiri; kubwumvikane bumara umunsi umwe (ijoro riba umujyanama mwiza) wo gusebanya) ingoma ya Scatterer amezi no mubuzima bwose. "