Inzozi z'umusaza wafatiwe murugamba hamwe nigihe

On September 24, 2012, in Basic Leadership, by Neculai Fantanaru

Wige kwemeza iyo myifatire "Nabyutse" nshingiye ku nshingano nyamukuru y'ingaruka z'ibihugu uhura nazo mbere yacyo gihe.

Ed Tom Bell. Yashakaga guhunga iyo myumvire ikandamiza, yijimye kandi itagira izina kubera igihu cye kandi kidashira cyo kwiheba kubera ibyabaye mu gihe cya nyuma, cyamugose nka cocoon yatinze gukingura.

Yumvaga afunzwe mu mwanya ukomeye kandi wubusa, ikigo gitangaje cyubuzima cyabayeho nko gutsindwa rwose. Kandi ubwo butayu, abanyamahanga rwose, umukara rwose, umukara rero, wangiza mu guhangana n'ubuzima, biranga umuntu wese uwijugunye n'ishyaka rye bwose, utegereje ko umuntu atazwi, ategereje ko ashishikaye, amukomeza cyane.

Yasa nkaho yumva akeneye aho aseka, aho aruhukira ... Iteka ryose.

Umuntu yavuze ko umusaza yari afite imvugo y'ibihe, kuko iyo ushaje uramenya niba ufite intego.

Ubuyobozi: Urashobora gusohoza intego yawe mukwangiza ingaruka zamaze zihora zisakuza "byihuse"?

Ku iherezo rya firime"Nta gihugu cyabasaza (2007)", imiterere nyamukuru, sherif ed tom inzogera (ikinwa na Tommy Lee Jones), ifite ikiganiro gito numugore we, Loretta.

Byasaga naho ari we yinjiye byimazeyo Delirium idasobanutse ibanziriza undi muntu utazwi witwa urupfu. Ubuzima bwe bwose, bwasaga naho, bwa mbere, igicucu. Ntareba na gato n'umugabo wagaragaje icyifuzo gikubiye mu ijambo "intwari". Yibasirwa nubuzima, imbere yumuntu, nkamadoro yanyuma yo kurwana na we. Ikirangantego hamwe nigihe cya Yakobo, intonganya na marayika, imibonano yambere yumuntu woroheje hamwe nurundi rwego.

Ati: "Nari mfite inzozi ebyiri, yagiranye na Loretta. Bombi hamwe na data. Biratangaje. Ndakuze cyane kuruta uko yari afite imyaka 20. Nkwiriye rwose.

Ibyo ari byo byose, uwambere ntaribuka neza, ariko ni ukubona data mu mujyi, ahantu runaka, kandi ampa amafaranga. Ntekereza ko nabuze.

Kabiri, byari nkatwe twasubiye mu bihe bya kera. Kandi nari ifarashi, kunyura mu misozi y'ijoro. Kunyura muriyi manyura. Hari hakonje, kandi hasi hasi. Arabyanga, akomeza, nta kintu na kimwe avuga, kahise gusa. Yamuzengurutse ikiringizo hafi ye n'umutwe hasi. Igihe yagendaga agenda, nabonye atwaye umuriro mu ihembe, uburyo abantu bakunda gukora, nanjye ... Nabonaga ihembe riva mu mucyo imbere, 'shaka ibara ry'ukwezi. Kandi, mu nzozi, nari nzi ko ari ... gukomeza imbere. Yarimo akonjesha 'gukora umuriro ahantu hari umuriro muri iyo myibutso yose n'imbeho. Kandi nari nzi ko igihe cyose nagezeyo, yaba ahari.

Hanyuma ndabyuka. "

Ubuyobozi: Witeguye kwibonera ingaruka zo gufata ibyemezo kugirango uhuze guhindura ibicuruzwa ubuzima bwibicuruzwa ku mateka yibasiwe yahinduwe na HILSINIONS?

Birasanzwe kandi rwose birakenewe kureba hamwe ninyungu namatsiko yose ibisobanuro byahawe ubuyobozi, kugirango upime imbaraga zayo, no gupima imbaraga zacu mugihe tuzirikana "ejo hazaza hazwi kandi rimwe na rimwe ntibigaragara .

Amarangamutima yahinduye ibintu biteye ubwoba bitanga itandukaniro kuriwe, ntabwo yemera ko ari hafi yo gutsinda hagati y'ikintu cyawe kigutera gukora n'icyo ugomba gukora kugirango wirinde gutsindwa kwose. Ugomba "Yego" ugomba kwishyura ibyateganijwe byerekana "oya" ubwira ubuzima nta ntege nke zuzuye.

Ubuyobozi bugomba kutubera, kugira ngo tumenyeshe, bisaba uburyo bwo gusubira mu mico myiza, no gushimangira imyizerere yacu. Kandi, tugomba gukomeza kuba indakesha ku bijyanye no kwemerwa (guhindurwa imyizerere) y'icyitegererezo cyacu cyo gusuzuma no guteza imbere.

Nigute ushobora gucunga imyumvire yawe yubuyobozi? Ku bushake bw'abatishoboye cyangwa kwihesha agaciro bikubiye mu Ijambo "ubutwari"? Mugusesengura inzozi hamwe nubuhanuzi budashimishije umenya ko undi muntu azakubona? Cyangwa binyuze muburyo bwihariye bwo kumva ko ushobora kugereranya no gukanguka mu mwuka?

Intego yuko ubwihindurize bwagutegura mubikoresho byo mumitekerereze ya psychologiya nikigaragaza imyifatire hagati yigihe cyo guhura nikibazo cyo kurota.

Kugira ngo wirinde kuri ed syndrome ya Ed Synd, ugomba kwemeza ko "nabyutse" mfata imyifatire ishingiye ku nshingano zingenzi z'ingaruka zakozwe na Leta twumva turi hafi y'ibihugu bidashoboka.

Iyi niyo myifatire kugiti cye ishingiye kubuyobozi, kubintu byose bitubaho, kubyo tubona nkikibazo gikomeye, urunigi rwibyabaye, twe ubwacu turi abaparuzi.

Ubuyobozi: niyo ntego nyamukuru yo kubaho kwawe kugirango umenye uko ukoresha igihe cyawe kugirango intego zawe zibeho kugirango intego zawe zizaba icyo gisobanuro no gutsimbarara ku mico ikubiyemo ingaruka zo hanze?

Abayobozi bake, banyuze mu gihe cy'urubyiruko, bagacunga kurera igihe ubwato bwabo bwite, bwa mugenzi wabo cyangwa umwanzi wabo ucecetse, barimo kuzunguruka ku nyanja nini, idafite umupaka.

Abantu benshi bagenda barushaho kuzamuka izuba rirenze. Kandi iyo iyi "ubwato bwo guhora igomba kuba" kurohama ntanumwe ubishaka, ntamuntu numwe ubyemera. Baranga ubwabo. Kandi wanze kwambara ikositimu yo kwibira, kugirango witegure ibintu bitazibagirana, gutongana nubufatanye nyabwo ku ndangagaciro zihamye. Ntabwo bahangayikishijwe n'iterambere ryabo, guhindura ibintu bibisi bisigaye muri bo, nk'uko umuhanzi asobanura gushushanya akoresheje ibara kugirango yunguke.

Ariko barambuye uruhare rwabo bashimangira ko ubumwe hagati "yubusaza" n "" kwiheba ", iyi nicyo kintu cyonyine gishobora kubageraho ukuri kw'inzozi zasigaranye.

Ubuyobozi: Nigute ushobora kwita kubeho ko utagomba kubabaza, iyo indumu ifunga umuryango mumaso yawe kandi udafite imbaraga zo gufungura?

Umuyobozi arashobora guhora azamura imigabane niba ahanganye nibyabaye. Niba arinda intege nke ze imbere yubuzima, mbere yuko ameze "kuba" nkumuhanga wanyuma wo kurwana na we. Gukomeza koga, koga, no koga no mugihe cyumuyaga ni sine qua adafite ubuzima bwo kugera ku buyobozi, no kurinda ishusho yawe nk'umuntu ufite imico.

Kugirango ukomeze "guhoraho kugirango" ushinzwe "ni nkundi nyirabayazana w'umuntu utagomba kubabaza, umusaza wabimenyesheje mu gihe akeneye gushyira mu bikorwa mu buzima bwe, mu bitekerezo bye, ubwoba no kuri Gira ubutwari, ukomeze inzira nziza, kwimukira ugana ahandi hantu, kubitekerezo bimwe byasobanuwe neza.

Ufite ubushake bwo gukuraho ayo magambo kandi atagira ubwenge mubwimbitse bwawe? Nigute ushobora gutsinda ibyiyumvo byawe byo kwicira urubanza, ukandamiza, uzengurutse impande zose? Wirukana ishyaka ryose imbere yintambara itazwi kugirango ugire icyubahiro cyiyubashye? Urabona uri mumwanya wumugabo, ugaragaza neza mu ijambo "intwari"? Ureka wakubite imbere yubuzima, imbere yumuntu, nka repeubt ya nyuma yo kurwana nawe wenyine?

Ubuyobozi nigisubizo utanga ubuzima mugihe desyine iguha munsi yawe ishobora gutanga.

Inzozi z'umusaza wafatiwe murugamba hamwe nigiheBisobanura ibisubizo byuburyo bwuzuye kandi bufatika bwa kamere yumuntu wabitandukanije mubuzima. Baho ubuzima bwawe ujye imbere kandi uzatangira kubyumva neza ureba inyuma. Guhura kugeza kumwanya wanyuma imiraba yaremewe nububasha bwawe.

Imikorere yizewe hamwe numukinnyi wukuri bavuka mu ntsinzi zabonetse mugihe cyibigeragezo, mugihe umaze gutsinda nubwo hari inzitizi zagaragaye cyangwa zarezwe nabandi, mugihe ukurasa"Hit, kurasa."

Kandi iyo ugeze izuba rirenze - Kenshi, urashobora kukubwira no kubandi "ubutumwa bwagezweho"