Kutakaza kudacogora byatewe nimyuka yisi yabaye umusaka (II)

On January 10, 2014, in Leadership T7-Hybrid, by Neculai Fantanaru

Wibande kubigutera kwihiga, kwinginga igitekerezo cyibi bikubaho mubyukuri bihumbya byuzuye.

Aho guturika mu buka bw'uburakari butagenzuwe, Marie yongera imbaraga zo gusobanukirwa Jason, arwana cyane ku gutsinda Phosiyani kandi ngo amwumvikane ku byiyumvo bye - ntajya amutererana. Byongeye kandi, yagiye kurwanya ibintu biteye akaga muri kamere ye, kumumenya bishingiye ku bintu bibiri by'ingenzi byayo - kwihangana n'imbaraga z'imico, byahanuwe ku rwego rwimbitse.

Jason yanze kwibuka ibyahise, ariko ahanura igihu cyiza cyibyamubayeho mbere yimpanuka mbi.

Chimie iragufata kandi ntizarekura. Marie ashyira amarangamutima ye yose. Imyitozo ya radiyo ya serishi yatagerwaho yimbere yimuka yerekeza ku nkingi yindangamuntu ya Bourne, igera kuri ibyo bintu byoroshye bigizwe no kwigirira icyizere gito. Ingaruka ze zidakunda kurema gusa imvange yimyumvire n'amarangamutima ashobora gukomera, ariko kubona umutekano ukomeye imbere binyuze muburemere. Kandi ubu bukomere bugomba gucibwa no kwerekana kunyeganyega bishobora guhita bikurura reaction yubufatanye, iyo chimie iragufata kandi ntizarekura.

"Ndarwanaga n'ubuzima bwanjye! Kubuzima bwacu! Urashobora gutekereza no kumva, Jason! Ngwino! Umva! Umva! Uzi ko ushidikanya ko uri Umwicanyi. Niba udashoboye, hanyuma umane nanjye reka ngufashe. Kandi unkunde! Kubwimana, unkunde, Jason! "

Umutima wumugore uhita wumva impuruza mugihe umuriro wihebye wafashe inzira yose Paroxysm izamuka hejuru yintege nke z'umugabo iruhande rwe. Gusa ubu urwego rwo hagati rwa kamere ye - ubushake bwa agutimen - burashobora kwitabwaho, gupima indangagaciro nshya.

Igisubizo cyawe kubintu udashobora kugenzura biterwa nuburyo uhuye nububabare abandi bumva imbere yawe.

Verisiyo y'ibintu bidasanzwe ni ugukomeza reaction afite imbere yukuri guhunga imyumvire yuzuye. Kugirango umenye iki gihe bisobanura kwihagurukira gutwarwa nuburambe bwose bwumvikana, amarangamutima, ibitekerezo bisa nkaho bigereranya reaction yo kubyanga mubyukuri ibintu byo kwangwa cyangwa gukurura.

Ninde ushaka kumenya igipimo nyacyo cyubushobozi bwe bwo kwihutisha iterambere ryabari bamukikije baratumiwe kugira ngo barebere ku cyiciro cy'ubugingo, butandukanye rwose n'undi muntu utandukanye cyane. Imitekerereze yose iba mu tomeni nziza nkigice cyo gusangira, gushyikirana no kwerekana ibyiyumvo byabo:"Ndarwana n'ubuzima bwanjye! Kubuzima bwacu!"

Buri gihe habaye itumanaho ryimbitse hamwe nubufatanye buhanga hagati yububabare nukuri, hagati yubwiyunge nimpamvu, hagati yimikorere n'ubwumvikane"Kurwana"na"guhagarika ububabare"- Kandi inshingano zumuyobozi ni kubanjafatanije nishyaka ryinshi no kwizera.

Ubuyobozi: Ubutunzi bwawe bwumwuka buzamuka kubitekerezo byaremwe nukuntu kwiyumvira "kuba mu mbogamizi", munsi yo kubona imyigaragambyo abandi babona nkikizamini cyumvikana kidasanzwe?

Ni kangahe, nishyaka ryinshi umuntu agomba kwerekana mugusobanukirwa neza ibintu byihishe kuri wewe, mbere yo gusuzuma abandi no kwishyira mu mwanya wabo? Iki nikibazo kirimo gushika guhuza ubuyobozi nukuri kwabayeho numuntu ku giti cye, akenshi bifatwa muburyo budasobanutse.

Ushaka gusuzuma ubuyobozi, abikoresheje isesengura ry'imyumvire yihariye, agomba gukomeza kubaho kwemezwa ku byanganijwe bidasanzwe byo kwanduzwa ku miterere ye. Nkibijyanye no gufungura ukuri kuzashobora gusobanura intego zubuzima, cyangwa ubushobozi bwo kwizera ubwenge butandukanye no kuyumvira.

Kwishushanya ni ukugaragaza ibyo ubwira abandi muburyo bwawe, binyuze mumagambo n'ibimenyetso, iyo bakubonye nkabagirana neza.

Kudasobanura neza ikarita yumuntu, winjire mwisi yuzuye ibisobanuro n'amarangamutima ashyiraho amategeko ye yimikorere, nintambwe yambere yo kumenya ibintu bitangaje, bigereranywa nikintu cya ergonomic gitangaje kugeza kigeze ku bushyuhe bwiza , nyuma yo guhanagura no gukora mubihe bisanzwe byo gukora.

Capturing those intensities, feelings lived with sincerity and expressed casually by man throughout your whole incursion into the psychology of his personality (hard to describe because it constantly changes) you will be able to move the double inner resource that gives color to his life and at Igihe kimwe kimutera kunesha umwuga.

Aya masoko, kuruhande rumwe atanga umuntu kwemeza icyerekezo cyiterambere. Ku rundi ruhande, itanga umuntu kuzana ku isohozwa, binyuze mubyo atuye kandi yumva, uko ibintu bisanzwe bimera mu mpeshyi, ubwo buryo bwiza bushobora kumuyobora ku nzira zihindagurika mu buryo budahwema kubaho.

Kwiyumvisha umuyobozi bipimwa no kwigomwa byakozwe mwizina ryibindi bisabwa mubuzima, aribyo uburambe bwo kubona imibabaro yabandi nkicyiciro gikenewe kugirango umuntu ukomeye.

Kurira kudacogora k'umutima watewe n'imyuka y'isisobanura ko kwifuza gutongana, gukuba kabiri ubushake bukomeye bwo guhindura impinduka muburyo bwo gutekereza no gukora abantu, mugukurikirana abantu basanzwe.

Yari afite ukuri, wavuze ati:"Kwiranganga byagabanutse ku nkuru uhora wumva ko ari ngombwa kuvuga mubitekerezo byawe: njye n'inkuru yanjye - mugihe cya Lunditity."

Kumenya gutabaza ngo ubufasha bwumugabo bwakorewe kwirangagura, shyiramo ibyiyumvo byawe byose kandi ugerageze kubyara amarangamutima kugirango ashimishe umwuka we.

* Icyitonderwa: Indangamuntu ya Bourne (1988)