Umukobwa, uri umwamikazi w'Ubufaransa

Gushimangira umwirondoro wawe mumiterere yagutse, aho itandukaniro riri hagati yawe nabandi bahinduka uburyo bwo gusobanukirwa neza ubunini bwubuzima.

Urugi rwakinguye kandi umugabo yongeye kugaragara. Mu ntoki ze, yari afite igipupe cyiza cya cosette kuva kera. Uyu mukobwa yaramwitayeho, hanyuma agera kuri doll, hanyuma asubira inyuma akuramo kure yimeza kurukuta. Byasaga naho yatinyutse ndetse no guhumeka. Isura ye iracyafite amarira, ariko amaso ye yatangiye kuzuza, asa mu kirere bucya, n'imirasimba idasanzwe y'ibyishimo. Ibyo yumvise muri ako kanya byari bisa nkaho umuntu yahita amubwira ati: "Mukobwa, uri umwamikazi w'Ubufaransa".

Cosette yagize ubwoba. Byasaga naho ari we ko aramutse akoze ku gipupe, igipupe cyamutera. Ikintu cyabaye ukundi ukundi ku rugero runaka, kubera ko yibwiraga ko Madamu Astardier, aho yakoraga nk'umuja, akayakubita urusaku. Yahoraga yambaye ubusa rwose munsi yumuyaga ukaze wububabare.

Ariko, ibishuko byari byatsinze. Yarangije yegera umugabo ufite igipupe kandi afite isoni zowongorera, ahindukirira Madamu wasarberatier ati: "Nemerewe, Madamu? Ndi?" Nta jambo ryashobora gushushanya isura ye, yihebye, ubwoba kandi byishimye, icyarimwe.

Amaso y'umunyamahanga yasaga naho yuzuye amarira. Yasaga naho yimutse ko atavuze atinya kurira. Yunamye muri cosette, amutera inkunga yo gukina n'igipupe. Nibwo buryo bwonyine bwari buje umuntu wigeze amuha, igikinisho cyonyine umutima we usaba, kandi umwe wasaga naho woherejwe mu ijuru abitangaza, yari yaramuhaye.*

Ubuyobozi: Washyizeho imbaraga zo kugereranya ibinyabuzima uko imitekerereze yawe yerekana urwego runaka rwo guhanura muburyo ibintu bizagenda muburyo bwo "muburyo butaziguye"?

Niki kigizwe nububasha bwibanze bwumugabo wa kijyambere, bushobora kumuhindura umuyobozi wukuri? Iribasha nuburyo bwo kubona injyana yubuzima mubandi? Ninzira yo kwera, Kuryamanura, bikarenze abandi bose, bigeze kwiyemeza cyane kubikorwa bitunguranye, ibimenyetso nimyumvire?

Ubuyobozi ni amahirwe yo kurushaho kwimuka muburyo bwagutse, aho itandukaniro riri hagati yawe nabandi nuburyo bwo gusobanukirwa neza nubuzima bwiza nubunini bwubuzima. Nukugerageza gushira murwego rwo kugereranya ubutegetsi imiterere yibihugu byawe byo mu mwuka, mubihe byo gukoreshaIkiguziburyo. Muri ibyo bihinduka gusa bidakomeza 'gushaka "kandi" gukenera ", byongeye guhura mumwanya wihariye, bidasubirwaho, bikaba byemewe nukuri kwisi hamwe, birashobora kongerwaho muburyo bumwe bwubumuntu.

Nkuko isi irerekana ibibera imbere muri wewe, nanjye rero "ikiguzi gitaziguye" ugomba gutekereza ku mishyikirano nawe kugirango usobanukirwe neza ubuyobozi, ni ukumenya neza ubuyobozi no kumenya ko , gupima imbaraga zimiterere yawe, kuguhatira gukora ukurikije ibyifuzo byabandi. Iyi "ikiguzi-mu buryo butaziguye" bufitanye isano nuburyo bwo gutangiza imiterere yumuntu kuva intambwe ntoya kugeza hejuru.

Gushiraho no gutanga ibisobanuro kumbaraga zawe kugirango wire Umuntu ku giti cye atandukanye nisi kandi icyarimwe ugira uruhare ku isi nugutera kamere yawe hamwe nuwawe ubwawe kugirango wemere ibyo watanzwe inzira y'ubuzima birenze amarangamutima nishusho.

Sinshobora kwibuka uwavuze ibi bikurikira, ariko rwose yari afite ukuri:"Iyo tunyuze muri ubu buzima dufite imyumvire yo gushimira, tuzumva ko buri gihe hariho abantu bakeneye cyane kuruta ibyacu."

Kurera abantu kurwego rwo hejuru kuruta uko ibyawe, ni ngombwa kubisubiramo kubyo tubatera imibabaro, kubimenya byinjira mu cyiciro gishya cyubuzima. Kuva kera kandi bikabuza mumiterere mishya kandi bihuye no kumenya imiterere itandukanye. Ubuyobozi bugomba kwemeza ko inzira igana ishyaka ryurukundo-butanga imbaraga zirenze izindi ndangagaciro zubuzima.

Impinduka nkiyi yatsindishirizwa neza, nkuko bamwe bakomeje kubitekerezaho, cyane cyane niba ushyize umubano wawe nabantu munsi yikimenyetso cyumwihariko. To deepen your identity in a wider context means to put soul and involvement in a seemingly doomed destiny, to acquire a new, fundamental role in initiating effective relationships in a new environment of personal development and growth.

Ubuyobozi ni ugushimira mugihe ikibazo kitoroshye hamwe nuburyo butagaragara bwubuzima butera abantu kubona ibirenze ejo, binyuze mububyutse muri iki gihe.

Umukobwa, uri umwamikazi w'UbufaransaAzana mu rwego rwo kwitondera ako buryo kunyurwa mu mwuka, agaciro nyako k'umurwa mukuru w'umuntu, wenda kitagereranywa n'ikintu icyo ari cyo cyose cyo kuguherekeza mu buzima, mbere yo guhindura ubuyobozi mu ntsinzi ikomeye.

* Icyitonderwa: Victor Hugo - Les Birababaje;;