Ububabare bwo kudatungana kwa Mastery

On May 01, 2010, in Leadership Impact, by Neculai Fantanaru

Igihe cyose uzakora intambwe nziza igana gutungana, roho yawe izashyirwa mubizamini bikomeye.

Umunsi umwe, Bwana Selder, wishimye kandi ushishikajwe no kongera kubona Soligh Dülor, yamutumiriye iwe. Uyu yishimiye kwemera ubutumire maze agaragara mugihe cyagenwe. Washoboraga kubona uhereye mugihe Databuja atakiri umugabo yahoze, muto, arashakira, afite icyerekezo gikabije kandi gitangaje kandi gifite umutezimbere Kandi irangi mu Budage.

Amaboko ye afite intoki ndende, yaranzwe n'abapadiri n'irangi, bahemukiye umurimo we woroheje, akaba akomeje kwitoza no kwishimira. Nubwishingizi bwe bwo kwiyeristo, muburyo yavugaga, umuntu yashoboraga kubona ko byari byiza cyane, umugabo ufite ubwenge bwinshi kandi yize cyane.

Umwigisha Eimer, wasuye kandi Bwana Seler, hamwe na we, ahisha ipfunwe rye, atangira kumushimira no guhimba ibihangano bye.

Dülor, afite isoni nke, agerageza gutunganya imbaraga zabo, ababwira ijwi ryimva:

- Birashoboka ko ndimo gushaka gutungana, ko gutungana umurongo ugororotse cyangwa uruziga rufite, niyo mpamvu ntajya unyurwa na kimwe cya kabiri. Umurongo washushanyije nabi gusenya igishushanyo cyanjye kandi ngomba kubisubiramo inshuro nyinshi, kandi sinigeze nkunda imirimo yanjye yambere, nubwo, icyo gihe, natwaye inshuro nyinshi kuba Bologna kugirango mfate amasomo. Ariko gutungana bibaho gusa ku Mana. Ibintu byose byo ku isi bibura ikintu, niyo mpamvu numva ububabare bw'ubuseri bushya.

Ubuyobozi: Urashobora gufata imizigo yawe yubumenyi uva kure yicyaremwe urwanya ibyo wiyemeje kwiyemeza kwiyemeza gukoraho?

Ndetse n'abantu barangije bafite akababaro, ndetse bakababara. Ariko imibabaro yabo, cyane cyane abahanzi bababaye, igihe kinini, igizwe no kutamenya neza ndetse no kuba hafi yabo, ku munsi wubwinshi n'ubwiza bwabo bizapfa.

Ubwoba bwo kumva agasuzuguro no gutunga, cyane cyane ku myaka yateye imbere, iyo bakunze guhangayikishwa n'umwuka wabo, bakabahindura imfungwa z'umwuka wabo, bakabahindura imfungwa zabo bwite, ntibashobora kugenzura imfungwa zabo bwite. Kuva gukora, kubisiga, batakaza imbaraga zigeze kunoza imikorere, kugirango bagere ku ntego zabo, nubwo bafunguye ibitekerezo byabo, nubwo bahuje ibitekerezo kandi bafite imitekerereze, bitangaje, bafite ibitekerezo byabo byinshi kandi biratatanye.

Uko umugabo azi byinshi kandi arushijeho kuba umuhanga, niko ababaye.

Ubwoba bukabije bwa Mister Dürer, uretse kugira impano y'ubuhanzi budasanzwe mu buhanzi n'iyerekwa rinini kandi ryimbitse kuri kamere muntu, ni uko atazigera azamuka ku rwego rw'agateganyo munini.

Uko yari azi, niko yarize, niko yashakaga kuba intungane mubyo yakoze byose. Uruziga, umurongo, ntibagomba gukururwa neza, bivuze ko agomba kongera gutangira, yitoteje, yireba afite ijisho rinebwe, kwicuza, uhangayitse. Niba ikibanza cyamabara cyangwa nuances bitahuye nigishushanyo yashakaga kurema, igishushanyo cyafatwaga no gutsindwa, bivuze ko azabivamo mu ntangiriro, nka Sisyphus, ahari, wenda cyane amahirwe.

Ubuyobozi: Urashobora kubana neza kubangamira ingaruka mbi zo gutungana, kandi icyarimwe, kandi icyarimwe tukagumane ukwemera ko watsinze uburemere bunini bake bashobora gusunika?

Umubabaro wunvikana mu bugingo n'uwashaka kugera ku butungane iyo atsitara ku busembwa, igihe yemeye ko atazamuka, akubuza kwigaragaza, ubushobozi bwo kwiteza imbere, akamumenya guhinduka neza.

Umugabo nkuyu yiteguye kuba isengesho ry'agahinda, buri gihe bitwaje ububabare mu mutima we, kugeza igihe agerageza kugeraho bisohoka neza. Kugirango ukore amakosa nicyaha cyumuntu wuzuye, birashoboka ko atari icyaha cyica, ariko rwose kimwe, kitababarirwa.

Uburemere bukomeye bushobora gusunika ni ugukoresha ubushobozi bwawe bwo kongera gukoresha ibikorwa mugukurikirana gutungana.

Kandi ni nde ushobora gukiza roho yiganjemo icyaha nkiki? Ninde ushobora kubatera inkunga, gutoresha, no kunoza ubugingo bufite inzara idahwema kubera gutungana, ariko inzara ihora amusahura kandi ko adashobora guhaza? Ninde kandi uriya marayika mwiza ushobora gutanga ibitekerezo byumugabo urira gutungana rwose, amusubiza mu buryo busanzwe?

Ubuyobozi: Itsinzi yawe ya nziza irashobora gusobanurwa nkikimenyetso cyo kugabanya ubushobozi bwo gukoresha imbaraga zo guhanga, bityo, igabanya igitutu cyashyizwe mugukomeza umwanya wo kuringaniza?

Every leader has certain expectation, certain ideals and certain obsessions. Napoleon Bonaparte, just like Alexander the Great and other exceptional leaders, had a magnificent obsession, and you can easily guess what was that: to rule the world. Just like an artist in search of perfection, Napoleon, whose ability to lead could not be questioned, couldn't afford to make any mistake.

Intsinzi nyinshi yiyandikishije, umururumba yabaye kubutegetsi, kandi, kimwe, gutsindwa byose byamujugunya intambwe isubira inyuma. Yakundaga kwibwira ati:"Nigute nshobora gutakaza urugamba? Jyewe, Napoleon?"Hanyuma, umujinya mwinshi, mu buryo bumwe n'umutimanama we, yongeye kubaza mu muyaga w'intambara, afite imbaraga zo kurwanya imipaka iyo ari yo yose, kugeza igihe azatsinda intsinzi, uko yatsinze.

Impuhwe ko inkuru y'ubwitwari iyo ari yo yose irangira, nkuko ubuhanga ubwo aribwo bwose bufite ubumuga n'amakoraniro. Urukundo rwa Napoléon kubera imbaraga no kuba adashoboye kugera kuntego ze bitanga ububabare bukomeye mu bugingo bwe. Kubabazwa kw'imbere imbere, kubera inzara itagira iherezo yo kuba shebuja Worse w'Uburayi kandi, niba bishoboka, isi yose, yarakoze kandi yongere kandi yongereye uburwayi.

Ubuyobozi: Nigute umubano wawe n'imyitwarire ugira ingaruka ku mibanire iri hagati "yageze ku bigerwaho" kandi "ibirego byo kugira umudendezo wo guhanga"?

Abantu bafite ubushake bukomeye, bakoresha ubuzima bwabo bwose kubitekerezo bimwe - gutungana, gushaka gutungana mubyo bakora byose, mubyo bashaka. Kandi ubwanjye nizera ko ari inshingano z'umuntu wese kugerageza kuba mwiza mu murima we w'ibikorwa. Ariko intego zose zose zihuye nibihe byimbere byimbere. Igihe cyose umuntu azakora intambwe ikomeye igana gutungana, ubugingo bwe buzashyirwa mubizamini bikomeye.

Birumvikana ko abayobozi bakomeye batinda gutungana, kuzamura umurongo wibipimo byabo biri hejuru kandi birumvikana, birumvikana ko babishyikirana abantu bagize itsinda ryabo. Gushiraho umuvuduko wihuse kandi mwinshi birashobora kugira ingaruka nziza gusa mubyegeranyo gusa bigizwe nabantu bafite intego imwe, amahugurwa amwe hamwe nubuziranenge bumwe (kandi ntabwo). Ariko niba bidasa na "prototype" yitwa umuyobozi, barashobora gusenya, haba kubayobora.

Gutungana kwukuri bisobanura gukomeza gushyira mu gaciro Ibireba ubushake bwawe no gushishikaza gukurikiza umutungo witwa: kwihesha agaciro.

Nkuko umukoresha wa interineti yari yarashize neza: "Kwihesha agaciro nuburyo twisuzuma ubwacu tujyanye nibyo twari twiteze hamwe nabandi, kuba bigereranywa no kumenya agaciro kacu."

Umwanzuro:Umugabo ushaka kuzamuka akazi ke kurwego rwubuhanzi, umuntu ushaka gutungana mubyo akora byose, agomba guhindura urwego rwe, umuvuduko we nuburemere bwibikorwa, bitabaye ibyo azaba afite ubwoba ndetse na we Uzasanga agifite ubusembwa cyangwa ko adafite amahirwe yo kugera ku mahame ye.

Woba uri inyangamugayo kandi ufite intego zihagije zerekeye ubushobozi bwo kugera ku mahame yo hejuru?

* Icyitonderwa:Mika Waltari -Michael, Inzu ya poliromba, 2005.