Ni uruhe ruhare rw'umuyobozi mu nkuru ye y'ubuzima bwe?

Imbaraga zose zubuyobozi kugirango ubashe gutuma abantu bahuriza hamwe nimyizerere yawe, ibitekerezo byawe, nibikorwa.

Ndashaka gukomeza muri iyi ngingo igitekerezo cyingenzi gifata ishingiro ry'ubuyobozi, igitekerezo natangiriye mu kiganiro "Amahugurwa y'ibanga y'ubuyobozi".

Kubatigeze basoma inyandiko yanjye ya blog, ndashaka kuvuga muri make ingingo gato. Ku ntangiriro "Umuvugizi wa Sekibi (1997)Ati: " Ako kanya nyuma yo gutsinda, Kevin yinjijwe nicyemezo kizwi cyane "Milton, Chadwick & Amazi".

Kandi ntabwo byari kure cyane kuva ikuzimu. Umugore we arapfa, nyina arapfa, kandi inshuti ze zirashira mu mayobera. Ubuzima bwe buratandukanye. Nyiricyubahiro ntawundi yarenze se wamureraga, John Milton, uwarangije film, itanga kwifatanya na we no "gukorera" icyaha na Sekibi ubwe. Ariko Kevin, yarengewe no kwibuka umugore we, akora ibimenyetso bitunguranye: yiyahura, arangiza aya masezerano na Sekibi.

Iyo filime irangiye, ibyabaye byagendaga inyuma, kandi tubona ko Kevin yongeye kwinjiza mu cyumba cy'urukiko, atera urujijo, aho yatangaye, aho yagombaga kurengera uregwa aregwa ku ngufu. Hano ahura n'umugore we yakundaga, kandi kubera guhura, kubera ibyiyumvo yari afite kuri we, yahisemo kudahagararira umukiriya we, bityo akwanga kubora mu mico. Urukundo rwamukijije kunanirwa kwimyitwarire.

Ubuyobozi: Ugomba kureka ibyo urimo kubyo ushobora guhinduka, cyangwa ugomba guhura n '"icyaha" kugirango umenye uwo ugomba kwitanga?

Ni uruhe ruhare wumva ushobora gukina rwose? Uruhare rw'umuyobozi ntirugeze ahagaragara, bityo agomba guhitamo niba ashobora gukina urwo rwego cyangwa adashobora. Uruhare runini rero rw'umuyobozi nirwo ruhare yumva ko ashobora gukina rwose. Ariko uru ruhare rugomba gukinirwa hakurikijwe ibipimo byubunyangamugayo nubunyangamugayo, bisobanura imiterere yumuyobozi.

Ubuyobozi bufite imico ihuriweho kandi yerekana urwego rwumwuka numwuka. Kubuyobozi kugera kure, umuyobozi agomba guhitamo inshingano ze, kandi imyitwarire ye ntigomba kugira ingaruka kumashusho ye muburyo ubwo aribwo bwose. Ariko icyarimwe, ubuyobozi bufata (biterwa nibindi bintu) ntibigomba guhindura ubuzima bwe bwite.

Ubuyobozi ni imbaraga, kandi bihinduka bitewe numubano hagati yawe nabandi bantu. Nkuko umukinnyi adashobora guhanwa kuruhande iyo afite byibuze abo bahanganye babiri - niko bimeze kuri wewe, kugirango habeho kuzamuka, kugirango mugabanye umwanya wo kuyobora, ugomba kugabanya ibyago byo guhanwa na Abandi bantu iyo urenze ku mategeko no gutandukana n'amahame mbwirizamuco yatanzwe nabo.

Kuberako yego, abantu bashyiriyemo imvugo yo guhitamo umuyobozi. Rero, birakenewe rwose kugirirwa umubano wawe nabo no mumarangamutima. Kandi iyo itandukaniro hagati yawe nabandi bantu ni benshi cyane, nibyiza kureka - kuko gukomeza kubangamira umuyaga.

Ubuyobozi: Imikorere yawe igira ingaruka kumiterere undi muntu agaragaza kandi akakwinginga kumva icyaha kigutera kuganduka kandi buri gihe, emera ibintu ukundi?

Nigute ushobora gutera imbere kurwego rw'ubuyobozi? . ?

Kubwibyo, birakwiye ko twibandaho gushimangira no gusangira indangagaciro zirimo no kuzamura imbaraga za ego yawe, hanyuma ugasaba abantu impengamiro yemejwe neza ibintu bishobora gushimangira imico yabo. Uburyo uhinga imico yawe, uburyo usobanura uruhare rwawe, hamwe no gushyira mu gaciro no kugira uruhare, hamwe ninshingano zubuyobozi bwawe bugufasha gukomeza inzira yo guhuza ibipimo byemewe nabagomba kugukurikira.

Ibi nibibazo umuyobozi uwo ari we wese agomba gusubiza imbere y "" i "ahitamo niba azakomeza inzira muburyo bumwe cyangwa ikindi, cyangwa kureka.

Uburyo watekerejwe ubuyobozi bwawe, uburyo wasobanuye uruhare rwawe ubuyobozi kugeza ubu - byakorwaga muburyo bwiza? Uhura nimpengamiro idahwitse yabantu bemera ubuyobozi bushingiye kuba inyangamugayo n'imyitwarire? Urimo uyobora umuyoboro wimbitse ukuyobora kubusa? Utekereza ko bishoboka kuyobora abantu batazi wenyine? Uratandukana n'amahame mbwirizamuco n'imyitwarire y'umwuga? Nigute washyizeho kugirango ugere ku byishimo binyuze mu buyobozi? Utekereza ko ari ikintu gishobora guhagarika imbaraga zawe no kwagushaka kuzamuka hejuru mu nzego?

Tutitaye ku rwego rw'ubumva umuyobozi igera, agomba guhora asubira ku rwego rwa mbere rw'imbaraga: uw'umugizi wa nabi.

Urwego rwo hejuru, birashoboka cyane ko ugomba kumva ko ukeneye gusubira kurwego rwa mbere. Nkuko imbaraga zawe zikura, urashobora gusanga abantu hafi yawe "bazimira". Ntaho bivuga ko imbaraga zidahita zisobanura urwego rwubuyobozi buhebuje, ariko rushobora gukurura indangagaciro, bityo ukuremo umunezero. Ni ikihe giciro ugomba kwishyura kugirango ugere ku byishimo binyuze mu buyobozi? Kuberako Uko ubona, niko witanze cyane kugirango ugumeyo. Ntabwo ugera kubintu bikomeye niba utanze bike cyane, cyangwa niba utandukiriye amahame mbwirizamuco hamwe nimyitwarire yumwuga. Ariko nawe ntubona byinshi niba ugenda wihuta kumuyaga.

Ikintu kimwe nukuri kubayobozi bifuza ubuzima bwiza. Ntabwo ari ubushobozi bwabo buhabwa agaciro kubabakikije, ahubwo ni imico yabo yose, uburyo bwabo bwose bwo kwigaragaza, bwo gutanga ibyo bumva rero, ku bwiyere kubabakikije. Ukuntu umuntu amwe mugihe runaka, agaragaza ibyiyumvo byabo, ibitekerezo byabo, uburyo umuntu yitwara mubihe bitandukanye, nibindi. Ariko ntabwo ari ukuri ko ubu buryo, nubwo buri gihe bwemewe kandi ntabwo buri gihe buhuye ku mategeko ya benshi.

Gushiraho umubano nabandi bantu, ariko kunanirwa kwiyumvisha, ni nko kuyobora umuyoboro wimbitse uganisha ku kintu. Urimo kurohama mu mwijima w'ubujiji bwawe bwite, bigarukira kuri wewe, ahubwo ni umunyururu wo hanze urwikekwe rwuzuza amahoro n'ibyishimo byuzuye amahoro n'ibyishimo byuzuza amahoro n'ibyishimo. Inama: Wubahe inshingano zawe zo kuyobora no kongera gusuzuma uburyo ubona ko ubonye ubuzima bwawe, ariko uhora usuzuma "imiterere" yabaturage, kimwe nimpinduka nziza ukora.

Ubuyobozi nimbaraga zo kureba aho ushobora kujya, suzuma uburyo ubona ko ufite ubuzima bwawe bufite intego.

Uruhare rw'Umuyobozi mu nkuru ye y'ubuzima bweni iy'ubudahiro buhari bw'ubumana muri we. Byongeye kandi, ibyo Yoga Swami yavuze ko igomba kuzirikana:"Ntukivange n'abadafite inyungu nyazo zo mu mwuka."