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Kugirango umubano ubehore, ugomba kwambura imbuto mugihe gikwiye.

Turabona kwivuguruza gusa iyo dukora ikintu kibi. Ikibabaje cyane, niko kwikunda kw'imbere. Mubibazo bibi cyane, niba ikosa twakoze ari gukomera, twibasiye ibyago byo kwishyura igiciro cyinshi. Biragaragara ko umunywanyi wumurongo uzwi "umuntu yiga kumakosa" ntabwo yumvikana niba tugeze aho tutagishoboye guhindura ikintu. Rero, kugirango ibintu bihoraho nkuko dushaka ko baba, byiza kandi byiza, tugomba kwirinda gukora amakosa yingenzi. Cyangwa dushobora kuba amahirwe ahagije yo guhura, mugihe gikwiye, umuntu wihariye kugirango adukize ibibazo, kutubuza gukora amakosa adasubirwaho no kuyobora intambwe zacu muburyo bwiza.

Alejandro, imiterere nyamukuru muri firime"Mask ya Zorro (1998)"Wari intambwe imwe yo gutera ikosa ryica, ariko yakijijwe mugihe cyanyuma na Don Diego de La Vega (Zorro). Yari kumeza, yasinze, abonye Kapiteni Harrison Urukundo, wari wishe murumuna we. Ntatekereje cyane, arengewe n'ubusazi butagira imipaka, yafashe inkota, ava ku meza aramusimbukira.

Yagize amahirwe bihagije yo ko Don Diego De La La Vega yahagaritse imbaraga ziva mu mutima we kandi akamubuza gusohoza umugambi we, bitabaye ibyo, yari kwicwa kandi nta muntu washoboraga gupfira urupfu.

Ubuyobozi: Ese reaction yawe kubibiri bikugerageza mugihe cyo gushidikanya byerekana ikibazo cyawe murwego rwo kwakira ibihe bidasanzwe?

Umubano muremure urambye imbuto mugihe gikwiye. Kimwe na Alejandro, washakaga kwihorera murumuna we, Don Diego De La Vega yashakaga kwihorera urupfu rw'umugore we yakundaga cyane, Elena. Nta n'umwe muri bo washoboraga kugera ku ntego zabo, bagomba gukora bonyine. Don Diego de La Vega, uzi ubwenge kandi afite ubuhanga, yasabye Alejandro ubufatanye kandi gusa yashoboraga gutsinda murumuna we. Alejandro yemeye kandi, bidatinze, bakuze bafite ubucuti bukomeye.

Ariko bahuye n'impanuka cyangwa sibyo? Byagenze bite iyo, vuga, Don Diego de La Vega yahuye na Alejandro imyaka itanu mbere? Cyangwa ahari nyuma yimyaka itanu? Cyangwa nibyabaye byarabaye umwe muri bo gusa yari akeneye undi, undi ntari yari afite?

Nibyiza, ibintu byinshi byari bitandukanye rwose. Ariko bahuye kuri neza mugihe gikwiye, mugihe buri wese muri bo akeneye undi. Rero, bari biteguye gushyikirana neza, bizeye kandi barashobora gusohoza intego zabo. Igihembo cyo kugirana ubumwe bwabo. Muyandi magambo, "Badoda" imbuto yitwa ubufatanye kandi basaruye "imbuto", ikibabaje, cyatwa kwihorera.

Diality ni amakimbirane hagati yibibi nicyiza kibaho mugihe ugomba gufata icyemezo cyo gukanda mubihe bitunguranye. Ubwa mbere, wanze imico yawe ubagereranya nizindi, noneho umenyesheje imico yawe kandi uko bishoboka kose ubwire kuri sisitemu yindangagaciro uhuza kugirango ubutumwa runaka bugukwiriye kugirango ubisohoze.

Nibyo rwose, ubuzima bukubita firime. Mubuzima nyabwo, ibintu ntabwo aribyo rwose muburyo babayemo"Mask ya Zorro (1998)", inkuru nigihe gusa biratandukanye. Buri gihe, umubano mwiza nigisubizo cyabantu babiri cyangwa benshi bitanze kwikunda urebye kugirango zuzuze intego imwe.

Ubuyobozi: Ese uburyo uhuza uburambe bwumuntu bworoshye muburyo bushyigikira, hindura optics uhuza nabandi muburyo bwo hasi cyangwa ubukuru?

Guhurira impanuka ntabwo na gato kubwamahirwe. Iyo wigize intego yo hejuru kandi utegereze ikintu cyiza kibaho, gitangaje, ibintu byose bibaye kugirango bikuyobore mu cyerekezo cyiza. Nibyo rwose, mubyukuri mugihe gikwiye, uzahura numuntu ukwiye kugirango agufashe gusohoza intego zawe kandi, ubifashijwemo uzatanga muguhana, uzabafasha gusohoza intego zabo. Nkuko Brian Tracy, umwe mu barimu bazwi cyane n'abajyanama b'iterambere ry'umwuga ndetse n'abagize umwuga, bamaze kuvuga bati: Mu bihe byinshi, guhura ntabwo ari amahirwe. Ibice byose byubuzima nibyo nkuko bikwiye.

Nizera ko umubano wabantu, kugirango uteze imbere no kunanira mugihe, kigomba gukorwa mugihe gikwiye. Ntabwo aribyo byose. Nibwo abantu babiri cyangwa benshi biteguye amarangamutima kugirango batangire umubano w'ubufatanye, mugihe bashyize ahagaragara imbaraga zabo kugirango bagere kuntego imwe, mugihe bafite icyerekezo kimwe. Umubano wavutse vuba, ariko ntuhagarare ahantu hamwe barya bahita barya kandi bagapfa. Ntibikomeza kandi igihe kirekire nkuko bikwiye.

Umubano w'ubufatanye uragoye gushiraho kandi bigoye kubika niba abantu babiri cyangwa benshi badafite icyo bahuriyeho. Kamere n'intego yumubano ni ugena iramba ryayo. Mubyukuri, umubano wabantu wose 'uranga ni ukugira uruhare rwabantu babiri cyangwa benshi, kuva mu ntangiriro, gufashanya, urebye kugera kuntego zabo.

Ariko igihe cyose uhuye nubunararibonye bwumuntu muburyo bushyigikira, optics uhuza nabandi. Urashobora kuvuga muburyo bwo hasi ushyira icyubahiro cyawe imbere yibyiyumvo byawe na mbere yo gufata ibyemezo. Cyangwa urashobora kuvuga muburyo bwo hejuru uretse kwakira uburambe bwo kwiga no gutanga ibitekerezo byubwoko "Urakoze, ariko ntacyo nasabye", kubitekerezo byubucuti.

Ubuyobozi nuburyo bwo kwerekana imyifatire yawe yo gusumba binyuze mu gutekereza ko gushyurwa mugihe ugomba kubona uburambe bwo kwiga.

P.Gusa abantu bafite intego isobanuwe neza kandi bafite ubushake bwo kugeraho kugirango bagereho, mugihe gikwiye, umuntu umwe wizewe, witeguye gufatanya nabo no kubatera inkunga mubintu byose bagerageza. Cyangwa, nkuko Don Diego De La Vega yagize ati: "Iyo umunyeshuri yiteguye, mwarimu azaza".