Ibintu bitazwi byukuri

On February 15, 2014, in Leadership GT-Accent, by Neculai Fantanaru

Kunoza imikorere yawe mugutezimbere umubano wabantu, mugutsimbataza ubushobozi bwo gutandukanya ibyo uzi nibyo utazi.

Hariho ikintu cyakarengane kuri Ellie, byoroshye, hafi ku mutima neza ko natangajwe no kubona uko yanga mu bucuruzi ndetse nuburyo yafashe nkubuntu byose byamugiriye. Kandi nyamara, ntabwo nari nimwiganye kuri we. Nari nzi neza umuntu yari ameze. Nari nzi ubworoherane bwe ubu buri munsi, urukundo yari afite kuri njye, ubugwaneza bwe.

Nuko yari azi gusa igice gito cyo kubaho kwanjye. Yari azi kuruhande kubyerekeye isi yanjye, isi wahatiye kwiba kugirango uvuze ikintu. Ntabwo yari azi icyo kuzamurwa bigamije no kwigishwa muburyo bworoheje, ahubwo yari afite inyangamugayo, kandi nyamara hamwe niminsi ihoraho yiminsi iri imbere, kandi nyamara hamwe niminsi iri imbere, kandi nyamara hamwe niminsi iri imbere, y'amafaranga, yumubyeyi wambaye intoki kugirango ugaragaze, wemeza Ko umuhungu we yagombaga kugira ibyiza mubuzima.

Ellie yavumbura isi yanjye nkuko namenyaga ibye. Twese twavumbuye ibintu bitazwi.*

Ubuyobozi: Urashobora gushiraho igipimo cyubumenyi bwuzuye hagati yisi ebyiri zitandukanye, kugirango ushimangire uruhande rwimiterere yawe akubaza kuba undi?

Uruhande rwa kamere yawe rukubaza kuba undi, tutitaye ku bihe, turashobora kwigaragaza nko kwagura ubushobozi bwo gutandukanya ibyo utazi mugihe cyo kwegera Igicucu cyawe, ubuzima bwawe bwa buri munsi bugomba kuba bugomba kwishyiriraho ingaruka zubuzima, ariko ntibyemewe muburyo bwabwo.

Ahanini, uruhande rwihishe rwa kamere yawe rugaragarira mugihe wibonye nkuwahohotewe nibibazo byo hanze nimbogamizi yimbere ubona mubyandi, ariko umuntu ashima, ariko ntashobora gukoporora. Cyangwa umuntu, umuntu utekereza muburyo bumwe no mubihe bigoye ubona ntacyo bakoze byagusebya.

Ubuyobozi nuburyo bwo kumenya kwabantu bukomeye mumirongo myinshi yo kwitegereza kubyerekeye umurongo uri hagati yumurongo utazwi kandi udashidikanywaho kugirango hamenyekane amasezerano yo kwiteranya nukuri kwiteranya nikirere gifatika. Ihinduka "umukinnyi wo hejuru" mubice byo kubaka imyumvire itera gusobanukirwa nubusabane hagati yabantu.

Ubuyobozi: Urashobora kubona ushyira isura ebyiri zishusho icyarimwe kumiterere imwe kugirango imico yawe ibone ubwigenge kubutaka bwibintu n'ibirori?

Ingaruka ebyiri zi Ishusho zirashobora gukoreshwa kumiterere imwe yubuzima bwa buri munsi: Shiphot yuburambe bwagutse, mugihe ugomba kuzirikana ibintu byose bitagujuje ibisabwa nk "umuntu wimuka Ibyabaye bibaho mugihe cyo kwiga ubundi buryo bwo gutekereza kubuzima.

Ahanini, ubwigenge bwawe kubutaka bwibintu nibikorwa byagezweho gusa muburyo bwimyitwarire imbere yibitekerezo utanga kubyerekeye umuntu cyangwa ikindi kintu kigwa murwego rwawe.

Niki kihariye kubayobozi kiri mubyukuri ko badatekereza mumagambo agereranya, ariko mubijyanye na "amasomo twize". Ishusho yawe kwisi, isi ushobora kuba ikintu cyose, igereranya uburyo bwo gushimangira ego yawe uhagarariye ibiranga, imyitwarire, imyitwarire, imyitwarire, ni ukuvuga ntabwo igaburira uburambe bwabandi, ahubwo iva mubitekerezo byayo.

Umuntu yakundaga kuvuga:"Internagion ni inzira ikomeje, aho ihinduka mu mugabane w'abaguzi banenga bibaho. Ubwa mbere, igitekerezo cyingenzi muguhuza ibitekerezo bishya ni" buhoro buhoro ". Ariko, buhoro buhoro" , ibi byasimbuwe cyangwa bikosowe n'ibintu byakuwe mu bumenyi bw'imbitse ku mico myiza kandi mibi y'uwo muntu. "

Ubuyobozi: Urashobora gusesengura umugabo mubitekerezo bitandukanye cyane byimiterere ye, kugirango ubone ubushakashatsi bwimibereho nibitekerezo byingenzi?

Nkumuyaga uva ku giti kugera ku giti, ubudacogora, nyuma yo kubamenyesha udukoko twonyine, ubuyobozi buri gihe ubanza gupanga umurongo munini w'ukuri, ushyiraho ibipimo biganisha ku rutonde rw'amashusho asobanutse yerekeye abantu. Agaciro karashobora gushyirwaho gusa mubumenyi bwimbitse bwumuntu wafashwe nkumuntu ku giti cye, ariko kandi mugusabana nabandi.

Ubuyobozi, amateka yabo akurwa mubitekerezo bishingiye ku ihame"Ntushobora kumenya keretse wemera kandi ntushobora kwizera ibyo uzi byose", nk'igipimo cyo kwinjira mu mwanya w'ukuri utandukanye, turimo gutanga amategeko yayo yerekeye imiyoborere hagati y'abantu. Ntushobora kumenya umuntu kumanuka kumuntu muto mubisobanuro, ariko urashobora gushiraho urugero rwiza rwimbaraga zabo.

Kureba neza umuntu, umusesengure mubitekerezo bitandukanye byimiterere ye, kwikingira ibishuko byo gutekereza kuba priori, uzashobora gutuma abatsinze kandi babaruwe neza bava muri gahunda itemerera Kurangiza ubumwe hagati yubumwe cyangwa bwinshi bwimitekerereze, kuri gahunda yerekana imikorere mugutezimbere abantu. Mugutsimbataza ubushobozi bwo gutandukanya ibyo uzi nibyo utazi.

Urebye mu ndorerwamo muburyo bwimibare ibiri yingenzi bivuze kwiyubakira muri ego ituma ucira isi urubanza, utiriwe ufata isi yose, yirengagije. Bisobanura kuba ukikijwe ninyamanswa yukuri: igice ushobora gutsinda ubwoba bwawe bwihishe igice cyihishe nigice cyubuzima bwose cyubuzima gihuza, gikora kandi gitanga ibisobanuro byuzuye.

Ibintu bitazwi byukuriNibintu bigize ikintu cyabantu kigira cyangwa kidashimangira gukusanya cyangwa imikorere yumuntu, ukurikije ibintu byashishikarizwa rimwe na rimwe bihinduka.

Gusobanukirwa neza iyi "umuntu" utazwi ni ngombwa mubuyobozi. Ubwumvikane buke kandi bubyerekanwe bujyanye n'ubwihindurize bwa muntu n'imyitwarire ya muntu yo gushiraho umubano, bihujwe n'imikorere minini, itanga uburyo bwinshi bwo gusuzuma no gufata neza ibyo byemezo by'ibanze bifite ingaruka zikomeye kuri sosiyete.

* Icyitonderwa:Agatha Christie - Ijoro ridashira