Neculai Fântânaru

Everything Depends on Who Leads

Discreet Confessions (IV)

On February 17, 2021
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Leadership W3-Integra by Neculai Fantanaru

I organized the following words, chosen with good heart from the many pleasures of my artistic creations, sprinkled with small means of expression, so that each reader will like what they read, or at least have a moment of silence in the tumult of the world. My whole being breathes freedom in favor of many values, not only from the point of view of leadership, not just through the eyes of the artist, not just looking from top to bottom to a reality that seems so hard to reach and maintain, but by the fact that every word seems organized on the basis of unique life experiences. Maybe you will understand me better, maybe not, but you will certainly find something in you in my thoughts.

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* Progress never needed nerds, but creators. If I could take a closer look at the world, I would see more masks than chosen faces.

* A man who knows and does not show what he knows is not a man who possesses science in the true sense of the word.

* Know how to see in the dark as you know how to see in the light, and know how to see as if you could not see, but as if you could feel.

* He who does everything for science and progress does everything for God. And the mind that does not understand this truth will never shine.

* There are many who wanted to receive everything from life, but were not able to put their pride aside. And that means there was no real desire for it.

* What others find extremely difficult to do should seem ridiculously easy to you.

* Many older people prefer to study philosophical writings instead of understanding the meanings hidden in children’s stories. I say again, irrationally.

* A scientist is not always above science, yet he daily refines his science of being a scientist.

* It matters not how much you read, but what you foresee singularly from time to time. Try to communicate the intuitive part of what you do not know.

* In a world of change you no longer have time to memorize information to become a great connoisseur, or a great man of culture. If you don't create constantly, you'll be left behind.

* If what you do does not help another and does not take science a step further, it means that what you do… you do only for yourself.

* Being good in a field is not the same as being a man of change. Weigh your value through innovations through which science can be propelled to another level.

* He who does not bring a change to the benefit of science should not imagine himself to be a man of progress.

* You find your best friends where you are all exceptional and, at the same time, very united.

* Perpetuate the feeling triggered by the impulse to touch a velvet cloth, and maybe you will understand what it means to manifest an emotional state. Velvet is strictly related to the emotional state by its delicacy, it is like a work of art that turns from dream to reality, the reality in which we mirror our soul…

* Be good in one direction, but be exceptional in it !

* To be exceptional you have to be an infallible judge… not matter what mistake you make, by wanting to be good you are more subjective, you prioritize everything you create and you take everything to your sentimental side. You refuse everything if you don't find yourself in that whole, the sensibilities enter a game of chance intertwining. No masterpiece is sure of its fate even if it is lucky to be representative. Everything that is created must have the "luck of time", become better, correspond to the times and possibly never go out of style. However, any work or creation depends on the subjective whims of those who come after to remain in attention, and the farther we move away from it the possibility of understanding must be closer and closer to the individual… (Ioana Sarah)

* Looking in a mirror is sometimes like fishing without a fishing rod. In this case, fishing is related to recreational fishing, when you release the fish. But just as well, sometimes the mirror is about our fixation on the past. Each of us must be our own stylist when choosing what to erase, what to forget and especially what to remember ! (Ioana Sarah)

* We all look at spirituality, we all want to go through life. Often, I think we are like a novel in which we are the main character. Sometimes we have no mercy on us, other times we have indulgence. From all this naturalism a drama is born. We sometimes talk to ourselves as if we were going through a narrow gate, in all of this resides a decantation of experiences as in a purification… (Ioana Sarah)

* Read Borges and you will meet Wilhelm Hauff. Read Hauff and you'll step into 1001 nights. And in 1001 nights you will be Borges again.

* And no book tells a story more beautiful than a character who lives his story in the real world.

* And if your mind were a book and your soul another book, then you would have two books that tell the same story differently.

* And every new book you read, imagine that it is part of that unique book that instructs your soul to make a distinct description.

* And even if you read a lot of books, if you don't really live the life of the characters, then you will never feel the spell of endless stories.

* Important is not to read many books, but to learn to integrate yourself into the story of the character in your favorite book.

* Where you have talent, you need no teacher, nor a thousand teachers. But where you don't have talent, don't look for a teacher.

* There are three parts to my making: the one who sees, the one who gets used to what he sees and the one who feels in accordance with what he sees. I just happen to see too late.

* Many are smart in this world, but too smart to use their intelligence and too smart to admit their vanity. How smart can one be to know how to distribute awakening, especially to weigh vanity? Putting three words on the page doesn't mean science, art or whatever… There are still written books that no one browses even though access to culture has not been banned. Better to let the writer write, the artist make art in a big way, the woodcutter cut, and life follow its course.

* You always find out something new about people, especially when you expect less.

* And when you find out, you better keep what you found out for yourself.

* Play with science until it becomes your preference for a certain style of thinking.

* In order to understand what is difficult to understand, you must place your being in an area where it cannot be conditioned by language.

* No one gives up a memory that is preserved in the art of living beautifully, with elegance, with simplicity.

* Every night, before going to bed, ask yourself such questions about a situation that has preoccupied you more intensely.
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1. What peculiarities did that situation present?
2. What was important to observe, beyond what could be observed?
3. What is the finding that could have raised some doubts?
4. Did you manage to capture the particular aspect of a random factor?
5. What is the finding you can make about that situation in its first aspect: the need for change?
6. Why is it important to forget what happened in a corner hid from the eyes of the world, and why is it important to remember this?

* The universe comes to the aid of the one who knows how to use science for its benefit. I would always use PowerShell in combination with REGEX to use data processing. Know how to use any computer program as much as you need. You don’t have to be more skilled than you have to be, but you have to know how to use whatever is at your fingertips.

* A good program is one that can run any functions from other programs.

* Happiness means observing yourself daily in a trivial piece of glass that does not allow reflection. Thus, you will no longer worry about vanity.

* Some keep moving forward, others lag behind, and keep lagging behind. (Any progress involves a plus, a writing on our soul exclusively, surely, we will always have the courage to do it… staying behind is not a necessity, although some do it because that is how they think it should be… Ioana Sarah)

* Science is God’s merit in providing favorable conditions for the creation of a perfect world.

* Do not be afraid if you are the last in the world, rather be afraid to not lose sight of the astral moment that can send you directly to the forefront of the world.

* If you have not made any change in a branch of science, be certain that you are not a man of change, no matter how hard you try to be Someone.

* You don’t end up perfect, except by excelling in mistakes. And even if some mistakes are not forgiven, at least they nudged you forward.

* There is only infinity and those who have built the construction of this infinity.

* Be great only where you can be the best in the world !

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