Neculai Fântânaru

Everything Depends on Who Leads

The Tribute Paid To Life From The Heights Of The Eternal

On February 02, 2012
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Personal Development by Neculai Fantanaru

Show the superiority of your conscience, by removing the destructive influences of your own feelings’ oscillations.

Once again, their eyes met at the party of her father, the great businessman Bill Parrish. Susan approaches Joe with that joy that an accomplished woman feels in front of her lover, keeping deep in her soul the image of their first meeting. Joe felt the touch of her eyes as if a butterfly would be settled on his skin, waking up in him all the emotions that he felt numbed by time.

- Remember that morning in the coffee shop, Joe? When you said: "What's wrong with taking care of a woman, who takes care of you?"

However, in her soul, it was like she begged him "Noble heart, high spirit, I am urging you, by the name of love that you've gave to me, remove by any sign, by some revelation, this drop of heavy doubt that I feel how it invades me ! "

- Did I say that? he asked with fear in his soul.

The sincerity that precedes the awakening of consciousness is a pale attempt to recognize your true purpose and identity where faith in a separate self cannot move on from being a curse to being a blessing.

For a moment, Joe fell on thoughts, as if that remnant of memory touched his innermost cords of existence, emphasizing his pain and increasing his sadness. You suddenly feel a tingling all over your body, springing from the depths of your own thinking, that vibe, that almost imperceptible sound, that quiver of clean conscience.

For the first time, he had to be honest with himself and to Susan. And, to tell her the truth. That he was eternal. But she only a mortal. Nevertheless, how would she react to find out the truth? Now she had time to quickly examine her judgment, to appeal to all her senses, to the only bit of excitement that for the first time in millenniums of existence, the goodness betrayed them.

In the end of the movie "Meet Joe Black (1998)" the Prince of Darkness, saddened by the Susan's feelings of love, resurrects the real Joe – thus bringing a tribute to life from the heights of the eternal, which he directly ruled.

Can you manifest yourself through the need of feeling superior and dominating an individual, considering the contradiction that is created from what you where before and what gets lost within you?

Regardless of the circumstances, the clear conscience appears like a victory, sometimes after several stages of confrontation with yourself. And this victory is encountered enough rarely, generally only at the people that add meaning to their life, doing something that really matters for others.

The French philosopher Albert Camus wrote: "The greatness of a faith is measured by its doubts." Can you carry out something against some deep principles, against a consciousness that knows what is good? Do you doubt the accuracy of your faith? Do you prefer controlling and managing everything from a distance, surpassing any limits imposed by your image and your self-esteem, regardless of the circumstances?

By infringing your consciousness, leaving it to radiate impure feelings, which separates and creates uncertainties among those around you, it is like getting off at the wrong train station.

The journey towards the personal development you will do it by detour routes, you will explore unknown "territories" - feelings, emotions, feelings. And nobody will care to tell you where to get off. You need to figure out by yourself where you need to stop and how to feed your soul once arrived at the destination.

Only your conscience will tell you how it is better. However, the negative emotions will prevent you connect to your clear conscience, keeping your eyes closed, keeping them apart from the world that you can easily recognize as an ally and that can serve you as a bridge towards a higher level of self-knowledge.

Being honest with yourself in relation to the parameters of consciousness means expressing a truth that makes you special – in memory of what you where, before releasing yourself from a past that challenges you to constantly re-learn what the present moment means.

The tribute paid to life from the heights of the eternal expresses your ability to listen to the voice of your conscience, perceiving the inner state changes over a period of time.

As a leader, your concerns should gravitate, in particular, around the states of consciousness, or rather around your image and personality that reflect your own defects or qualities, of which you are aware or not.

If the negative feelings continue to take you over despite any attempts to escape of them, then your conscience will never be on your side and will never be reconciled with what you do.

To be filled with remorse means to have your mind wander on scenes lived in the past, in a brilliant environment, atoning for the mistake of having left your true identity for who you have become.

Just as the human body manages to maintain its temperature almost constant, even if the external environment suffers very significant variations of temperature - and so you, to keep your clear conscience, and for it to accept the truth of what you are, you need to keep constant the "quantity" of positive emotions that occurs in you along with overcoming your weaknesses - even if the environment in which you lead your existence influences your personality, even if your feelings suffer significant variations.

Show the superiority of your conscience, by removing the destructive influences of your own feelings’ oscillations.

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