Neculai Fântânaru

Everything Depends on Who Leads

Reward Or Punishment, I Receive My Destiny

On June 07, 2015
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Leadership FX-Intensive by Neculai Fantanaru

Seek to understand life in your entire wisdom and emotional manifestation, by relieving yourself of the fear that you lose something by allowing yourself to be what you truly are throughout it.

Upon hearing his voice that woke even the innermost fibers of his heart, Monte Cristo shuddered. His eyes met the girl’s gaze and couldn’t bear the glow.

- God ! God ! – said Monte Cristo – might it be true what you’ve let me wonder? Haydee, would you be happy if you wouldn’t leave me?

- I am young – she answered gently – I love the life you’ve always made so pleasant for me, the life I thought I was dreaming, which you taught me how to live. And I’d hate to die…

- So, you love me? Monte Cristo felt his heart grow. He opened his arms, and Haydee rushed to his chest, shouting:

- Yes, I love you ! I love you, as I would a father, a brother, a husband ! I love you as I love my life, as I love God, for you are more beautiful, more kind and greater for me than all beings ! And, yes, I would die without you !

The tendency to reflect on your own spiritual life, on your psychic traits, on your own behavior and actions, appears with the finding of a news story that minimizes the position of power you’ve built for yourself.

The count awakened by a divine thrill, as if finding a secret over time, but almost immediately calms his sublime start to exemplify his delight. Various spiritual states pervade his consciousness. Its sublime sensitivity cannot be stopped by any power, rather it comes out when you master your tears from flowing when hearing good news:

- Then, let thy will be done, my sweet angel ! Answered the count. God has given me life and allowed me to defeat my enemies, God, I see all too clear that He does not want to place repentance at the end of my victory. I wanted to punish myself, but God wants to forgive me. Love me, Haydee ! Who knows, maybe your love will make me forget what I have to forget.

- What are you saying, my lord? asked Haydee.

- I’m saying that one word of yours, Haydee, enlightened me more than twenty years of wisdom. I have but you in the world. Through you I feel bound to life, through you I can suffer, through you I can be happy… Have I glimpsed the truth, I wonder? He asked. God ! For what ! Reward or punishment, I receive my destiny. Come, Haydee, come !...*

Is the opening of the others to the version of your spiritual identity capable of printing a rebirth of the feeling will from which the instinctive factor of the feeling of power is formed?

Kindness and the depth of feelings always leaves room for rapprochement between people, increasing openness and responsiveness, often having as an effect the possibility of forcing a sustained effort of understanding of the traits of a different facet of life, except the situation where the "remodeling" of its route is more formal in nature.

The image that defines the quality of life will finally be whole depending on how you will interpret the leading role in its screenplay. You will be able to become a model for which the very reason of being is represented by the mix between happiness and suffering – two close regions that reflect "light" in a good capacity, only if you manage to get close to what cannot be understood with the mind, but rather only squeezed and emaciated with something else. With spiritual warmth.

In leadership, which makes room for an involvement in the life full of force and motivation, through the release from the fear that you lose something by allowing yourself to be what you truly are throughout it, are highlighted the contradictions and oscillations of your own being subjected to a blind law – based on happiness and suffering, soul and mind.

In fact, in leadership these need to combine and complete each other in the perspective of a fulfilled expectation, in your fill wisdom and emotional manifestation – which tend to exert, one to another, a collective function, in order to reduce harsh appreciations, or even negative ones, related to what you could’ve been, but never were.

Leadership is the sovereign trait of life, the accentuation of a positive affective state, from which emerges the condition of maximum power of the man who knows that the true lucky star appears as a recognition of unity in the world of duality.

Reward Or Punishment, I Receive My Destiny highlights the feeling of an involvement in the existence connected to someone else, through happiness or suffering, through conscience or emotional energy.

Always the most relevant experiences are tied to what you interpret in the version of personal defining, seen as a choreography of the moods caused by others, but experienced personally at the level of a lookout "light."



* Note: Alexandre Dumas - The Count of Monte Cristo, Youth Publishing House, 1957.

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