Neculai Fântânaru

Everything Depends on Who Leads

They Stop Where They Want To Stop

On January 07, 2018
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Leadership Pro by Neculai Fantanaru

Learn to design on the outside everything that is in your heart, controlling the emotions of others and directing them in a new direction.

- Before you go, mister Count – said Julie, allow me to tell you everything that in that day...

- Madame, replied Monte Cristo, grabbing her hands – everything you will tell me will never be as precious as what I can read in your eyes, what your soul has thought and what my heart has felt. I should have left without seeing you again, as the well-doers in novels. But this virtue would have been beyond my strengths, for I am a weak and vain man, and because the humble, humorous, and tender look of my kin does me well. Now I leave, leading my selfishness to the point where I tell you: Do not forget me, my friends, for you will never see me again.

- Let’s not see you again – exclaimed Emmanuel as two large tears flowed on Julia’s cheeks. "Let’s not see you again"? So not a man, but a god leaves us, and this god will ascend to the heavens after he has showed himself upon the earth to do good !

- Do not say that, quickly replied Monte Cristo. Never say that, my friends. Gods never do evil; they stop where they want to stop. The happening is not stronger than them, on the contrary, they are the ones who master it. No, Emmanuel, I am a man, and your admiration is just as unfair as your words are profane.

And pressing his lips on Julia’s hand as the young woman rushes to his chest, he extended the other hand to Emmanuel. Then, pulling out of this house, the pleasant nest whose guest was happiness, he stepped into the diligence of four horses and stood unseen in the darkness of the night.

Does the reality that you have to accept and that you have to deal with, have as a first consideration the inaccuracies of illustrating an expressiveness of "the immediate"?

I like the idea of using a certain type of emotional baggage, but above all a certain authority over the facts targeted by an intuitive knowledge of the manner of manifestation of the diversity of human typologies, in order to manipulate a reality and find other connotations than a mere reflection of a moment or situation.

If you seek and want to maintain a certain mood at every passing moment, you will become more and more disillusioned with your abilities to obtain something, especially if you DO NOT consider man as a primary reality of supreme spiritual value.

Because everything that happens within people, at every stage of their lives, is part of the world they imagine and accept as a destiny, as a fact that is fulfilled and unforgivable, so a world that does not belong to you no matter how much you try to integrate yourself in it.

A state of mind that you wish to exploit through direct visual examination, marked especially by manifestations that are invested in value and with some significance by those who practice them, is determined in relation to your attitude towards certain limits of tolerance and adaptability to their needs for change.

"The immediate" has as a first landmark a "wow" emotion only when you deliver a "wow" from the beginning of a conversation, against the background of a story embedded in different modes of visualization and imagination.

Detective C. Auguste Dupin, the fictional character created by Edgar Allan Poe, said: "Knowing a man is accomplished by first pursuing his mimic or physiognomy; by reproducing it, you think of his thoughts and intentions."

Essentially, Dupin – just like Monte Cristo, creates an assumption that he then checks through the perspective of emotions triggered by a particular situation or whose production is favored by a certain circumstance.

Even if you are used to representing your own "personal brand" depending on the power of interpreting the emotional expressiveness of surrounding people, their value must not look like a drawing understood as an outline that determines the shape of an object through a sort of summary of itself. But rather, such as writing, understood as a pure configuration, spontaneous, which does not evoke the physiognomy of a thing, but rather the virtues of a nature unaltered or as close as possible to a veritable archetype.

The greatest achievement you have to accomplish, as a leader, is to regulate your level of authority by becoming aware of the emotions you awaken in people, so that they become aware of what you feel !

They Stop Where They Want To Stop when they put into play their force of persuasion and presence of spirit. They are, in the simplicity of some favorable findings, the detectives of the underside of things from the "hidden" pages of the minds scared by the reality of life.

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