Neculai Fântânaru

Everything Depends on Who Leads

I Will Meet Myself Again

On April 08, 2021
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Leadership N6-Celsius by Neculai Fantanaru

Learn to look at yourself from the perspective of a life lesson formed by traversing the optimal distance between what pushes you forward and what characterizes you unanimously.

I ran with my friends, and I covered about 10 km in a quiet run, without any worries, without rules. By and large, it was just a simple run, and nothing more than a daily distance of 10 km, influenced by the desire to keep fit. And yet, at one point I felt that it was much more than a run, it was a state of mind worked to the fullest with the distance between what usually pushes me forward and what characterizes me unanimously.

And, as with any run, when everything seems to stand still around you, and you tend to somehow outrun time, you suddenly feel ready to submit to the will of a world that only reveals itself under certain conditions of observing life lessons so that they teach you more about yourself.

I accelerated suddenly. I ran only with my immense will to outrun time, because time does not stand still when it competes with me, as if it were competing with a photon of light that defies its boundaries, laws and logic. And if indeed my will had been similar to the energy of a photon of light, I would probably have been pleased with the agreement between superiority and concern.

Are you able to find yourself in the sensitive form of the feeling of “individual meaning”, rather than being deeply related to the measure of a time that no longer wants to flow in its natural logic?

And just the same, all of a sudden, I stopped abruptly. After about 800 meters of maximum intensity, I simply felt that I could go on no longer, I could not breathe, and so I toned it down again at a leisurely pace. And only this quiet step, without interruptions, without energy emissions (which I felt was repeated from the depths of the Universe), being the result of overcoming the vain ego, full of ambition and desires, taught me a life lesson. A brilliant life lesson.

It’s better to be indebted to time than to be a time thief. It is better to show your affinity for a certain group of friends than to be the result of passing time. It is better to find yourself in the sensitive form of the feeling of “individual sense”, than to be deeply related to the measure of the clocks that also transmit critical alerts.

It is better to evolve as a rediscovery of one’s own identity beyond the mental decisions and projections of others than to evolve as an important indicator of the intense dynamism you experience fully, but without feeling vitalized on the inside.

Is the measure of your own revelation about yourself deeply related to the measure of a time that no longer wants to flow in its natural logic, but twists within a constant of the type of “a rediscovery beyond the projections of others”?

Thus, I learned to feel good about myself, more deeply connected to myself, more at peace with myself. I have learned that I myself am the intuitive assertion of one extreme that turns into another, especially if the free framing of my conscience and vision in those life lessons that I have learned only by understanding myself, by cultivating my piece of mind, giving myself a more individualized self-image, compared to that of the group.

I’m not just a long-distance runner, a sprinter who focuses only on the race, but I’m the probable version of a member of a whole group of runners who has defeated himself. I will meet myself again at the next training session. And time will be more patient with me…

It should be noted that the feeling of “individual meaning” is formed at the intersection between what I expect to happen, what defines me and what I experience when my world intertwines with the world of others. I am no longer the man who amazes an entire world, but the man who hides an entire underground world, often shrouded in mystery.

Leadership is the idealistic formulation of the duality between the superiority of the vision understood as an inner expression and the exteriorization of a subjective experience seen as a fulfilled fact.

I Will Meet Myself Again whenever I feel that the events I am taking part in have failed to change me, either mentally or physically, but rather have strengthened in me that experience of self-knowledge through interaction with others. For what characterizes me unanimously is connected not only with the intuitive assertion of intellectual functions, but, to a certain degree, even with the decisive contribution of the experience of having one’s own world.

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