Neculai Fântânaru

Everything Depends on Who Leads

A Rare Hint Of The Personality

On October 21, 2010
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Leadership Quantum-XX by Neculai Fantanaru

Reveal your deepest feelings, for people to discover the truth about who they really are.

In the movie "Meet Joe Black (1998)" Susan Parrish, daughter of the billionaire William Parrish, carries out one last conversation with the Prince of Darkness, in the person of Joe Black. She confesses him with a deep uncertainty her thoughts. She was afraid. Deep down in her soul she knew that Joe is not telling the truth. For, she felt a wave of bitterness in his voice, as an endless pain, void of any energy, and any spiritual load.

Looking at her with pain in his eyes, feeling her inner unrest, Joe recognized his true nature for the first time, under the impulse of a deep conviction, his true self. Suddenly, he was covered by the most pressing feelings: of guilt, concern, sadness and despair, which became true. His first dominant feeling was compassion; the second a huge gap of nothing, as if would not be mattered the day of tomorrow. The will to fight his own conscience, with his temptations, his own identity, with his own weaknesses, was the great attempt that was given to him, which he did not anticipate, and which he could not pass.

At the end of the movie, the Prince of Darkness, in the person of Joe Black, leaves this world, but not before fulfilling his promise: to bring back to life the real Joe, that handsome young man whom Susan met at the café, and with whom she has fallen in love enormously.

What is the basis for your belief that you know the truth about other people around you, no matter what you’re willing to try to argue with absolutely incredible views?

Not by thought, but through contemplation and feeling (among people) Joe Black - the Prince of Darkness, was determined to understand, to live similar feelings and a personality closer to that of people. Susan, through her pure soul, by her sensitivity, through her inclination towards spirituality, has aroused in him the sense of justice, of true faith, of true and uplifting humanistic ideas, unleashing a split in his structure of the resistance.

All the people should be awakened and encouraged to redress what they have damaged in the lives of others, or what was wrong in their lives. But how? With feelings. By changing their spiritual condition. Just as Susan did, revealing to Joe Black her true feelings, thoughts and fears, could awaken in him the human feelings, so and you, in order to ease your conscience, to show people the truth about who they really are, you need to reveal your deepest feelings.

The expression of true feelings and emotions - this is the power that defines a man of a nobleness and a great spiritual wealth. Use this power wisely and with a positive discernment, worthy of appreciation. Thus, you will be more reconciled with yourself, and those around you will be always more winning. In order to relieve the positive aspect of your personality, you must engrave correctly in the mind and souls of the other people your own convictions and perceptions.

Can your personality convey depth in the struggle between ego and soul, relating to some beliefs and points of view that you must take into account if you want to get out of your mind a truth that obsesses you?

The process of knowledge of the other people is like a weird labyrinth, similar to that game for children in whose complicated graphic you must find the path that leads from the center toward the exit. You could not know it better if you do not understand it, if you do not find the path that leads in the depths of their mind and soul, and if you do not determine them to reveal the negative or positive side of their personality, their best qualities theirs, or, conversely, the less laudable ones.

Just as the better understanding from the patient's side of the disease he is suffering, spectacularly increase his level of involvement in following the treatment - so the awareness and better understanding from the people’s side of your deepest feelings will spectacularly increase their level of involvement in the process of changing their personality.

Leadership means judging people and their reality according to the beliefs you have, not according to points of view that invoke any absolute truth. In fact, the beliefs you share will help you understand the importance of what is happening to you, regardless of your will.

What is the belief that all your teaching encompasses? Is your belief to tell the complete and impartial truth? As someone said, the creed is the brief presentation of the teaching that you must create and confess.

A Rare Hint Of personality is the truth that you do not want to detach yourself from, but that you must accept, whether you want to or not. Joe Black’s conviction to be honest with Susan was based exclusively on the contempt of that Alter-Ego who had almost replaced his whole being, but who had nothing to do with himself, but with the young man whose identity he had stolen.

Rather than being a devil disguised as a man, it is better to suffer as a free man who is tied to his fate and his deeds.

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