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Everything Depends on Who Leads

Dead Or Alive

On Decembrie 15, 2015
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Leadership Journal by Neculai Fantanaru

Be open to what wants to manifest through you, without diminishing the hope you place into something that is compressed with the help of the unacceptable.

I proved to be refractory to a requirement to which, after all, I had some major obligations to – included in the possible recipe of transitioning beyond other doors. And other rooms. Antechambers of hell. Spaces equipped with surpluses of truths and doubts, as dark as my thoughts touched by the coldness of the time hovered over the chemistry of the alternations between sleep and awakening, echoing in my head as a stimulus that acts on a specific receptor field.

I appeared to be more dead than alive. As if my entire being was struck by the most poisonous of arrows, generically called "Doomsday", whose toxins instantaneously paralyzed my senses, straight from the heart to the brain, left me speechless. Without energy. Without power. "I was feeling lost / Waiting to be found."

Without undermining the faith I placed in something that compressed with the help of the unreal and, therefore, of the unacceptable, I decided to wait for the twilight. As it was forged by my imagination drained of powers, going barefoot without leaving footprints along the someone else within me, not without giving credence little by little, thanks to the tingling hotness that heated up my temples, that unknown voice that decisively whispered to me: "Help me to arise."

Deceiving, like a toy taken by the wind, I transposed myself in the skin of an angle that shook his hearing – I would’ve waited for you anywhere, between the living or the dead ! – rightfully so, with some exertions. But tempted, however, by a certain curiosity: "What would it have been like if I had not existed?"

Can you be yourself in a world that is constantly looking to turn you into someone else, in the case of struggles so constantly amplified by your openness to the challenge of seeing yourself as a holder of a fabled life?

Inside the castle Helmnar, David – the winner of the tournaments on Hakon, arrived in front of a wall that had no doors. He felt, however, that an unknown force existed beyond the wall, as if someone willing to meet him existed. Following his instinct, e reached out to the wall and felt it along. An invisible door, masked by a spell, created the image of a real wall. The door opened immediately. David stepped inside the room, in the middle of which he saw a giant mirror, in which he saw himself as if through a haze. As soon as he reached it, the haze dissipated. A voice trapped in the mirror made itself heard. "Help me get out of here ! "

Man, interposed to a completely different reality, the prisoner of that matrix that made him believe he was in Eden or Hell – I should say it now, while we are still in a relationship – this generator of effects opposite to those expected, greater than the heaven and the sea that overlap continuously in the imagination of the living, was rather attracted to this story that could’ve been true.

Moved by the implications of a boundless power, by the spark of personality that makes him different from others, could he maybe take advantage of this to the maximum? The unacceptable he had to bear actually meant to pretend to be alien to the world he experienced and to forge a reality in which he did not feel claustrophobic.

Do you say NO to the compromise between the contrary tendencies of life, refusing the "silence" that reveals your hidden fears?

To say NOT to the compromise between contrary trends of life, such as selfishness-altruism, isolation-association or individualism-solidarity, is sometimes to accept the terms of reality with a certain restraint, as if you only existed as an appearance.

We can understand leadership, coded through the perspective of the image of a man that said NO to the compromise between two contrary tendencies of life, refusing the "silence" that reveals his hidden fears, if we approach with a proactive attitude that side of existence which aims at training and developing character. Silence is an amplification of a state of uncertainty from which you can no longer escape, it is the result of a self-help that stretches far beyond the initial conscious impulse, stemming from the inability to give life lessons to a reality without a horizon.

And silence is often similar to self-forgetting, because you do not know which aspects to pay the most attention to. The tendency of man of getting lost into oblivion, matched by the propensity of breaking out of the shell of solitude, meaning his subjection to a maneuver of going in reverse, plays an important role in creating that premise of the rule according to which "who can do more, can do even more."

In other words, with the entry into a negative state, man can also experience a bit of grandeur, giving a broader meaning to the conversation with himself in order to achieve a breakthrough of the type "even if everything is against me, I need to surpass myself."

Does your accessibility produce an opening to a potentiality to be realized through consciousness as a symbol of the fullness of existence, without remodeling the call for transposition into a world that increasingly denies its foundations?

I recently read on the marketingprofitabil.ro website the following thing: "Dreams seem to be caught in a commercial that flows between the clouds or flies through stories, with the voice that accompanies the magical journey, until awakening."

Well, this voice belongs to the man interposed to a completely different reality, the prisoner of that matrix that makes him believe he is in a different place than the expected one by the fund of existence with which conscience has a tangent with.

The power that confers unity to the flow of consciousness, stemming from the probability of coming out of this space of silence and wilderness, marks the importance given to the person who has passed the stage of weakness in order to find himself in a sort of perpetuum mobile with a strictly thoughtful and modelling combustion. To find yourself is to rise above the casual reality of a hostile world above the laws of a misunderstood world, in the likeness of an ideal of sense and unrepeatability within the boundary of the condition of passing through life.

Personal success stems not only from others’ conception of you, but more from your conception over how you understand your inner world and living through it.

The individual’s quality of remodeling himself to the call of transposition into a world that increasingly denies its foundations due to its mistakes in an increasingly absurd setting is asserted as fully as possible in trying to present the unacceptable as acceptable or the normal as being revolting.

The best way to adapt in such a world is not to deny, but to accept its challenges and rules by the fact that you are its only survivor, its only foundation, its only savior, its only poet, its only creator.

Dead Or Alive highlights the variations of a world caught in the tunnel of transitioning towards a different model of man, closer to a higher self-power, arising from the existence of instantaneous characters that he himself creates and inserts in his own world.

People of great character are permanently enrolled in an existence of death and resurrection. They always manage to make a spectacular leap over their own shadow because they are open to what they want to be manifested through them, without diminishing the faith they put into something that is compressed with the help of the unacceptable.

Does someone else manifest through you, an Alter-Ego? A force far greater than the initial emotions and feelings life has put you through?



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