Neculai Fântânaru

Everything Depends on Who Leads

Extreme Tracking (I)

On December 04, 2013
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Leadership IQ-Light by Neculai Fantanaru

Watch your progress carefully and be open to others, analyzing and estimating the elements of continuity of your personality in critical situations.

Strange and unprecedented, nobody accuses Senator Ruth Martin of doctrinal deviation or negligence. As much as she’d hate this, she appeals to Hannibal’s intelligence to find his daughter, while Hannibal Lecter sees in her generosity not only the opportunity to regain his freedom, but also a new chance to explore the depths of human soul.

Chemical reactions are dynamic processes that take place within a certain interval. And a loving mother, having a more pronounced emotional chemistry, manages her emotional experiences based on these strong reactions, as painful as a bullet passing through the heart. Experimentally, you try to unravel its character, twists and turns, confusion generating appearances, thoughts and perspectives tormenting it, measuring its warmth, deeply looking the factors that can trigger high amplitude vibrations.

Ruth Martin seems absorbed in a battle with no luck, in a microscopic black hole called a "point of no return". It’s exciting; you are listening to that desperate voice begging, praying, hoping and asking for mercy, before which the heart bows, with its accompanying struggles, causing a strain equal to a constant value of a direct current, which passing through a resistor, develops an impact energy enough to carry out a new internal temperature control.

It’s an absolutely irresistible impulse ! This drowsy being thrills and vibrates without rest, whose pulsations you can feel growing at a staggering rate, burning more and more infusive fuel to maintain its level of stability. This human prototype struggling between vulnerability and intangibility must be maintained at all costs in the testing and control stage.

Can you develop and maintain your authority with sensitive personality elements so that you do not jeopardize those values that fall within the eligibility criterion set by performance resorts?

One can easily create his own personality development plan by identifying actions with evolutionary potential, but cannot materialize if he passively waits too long outside the scope of events. And the strongest personality is the result of the development of authority through the sensitive elements that turn a leader into a man who experiences love. Elements such as: manifestation of affection and gratitude, emotional involvement, generosity, appreciation, cherishment for a charity mission, etc.

Your "voluntary" work under the "Different Man" program, full of enthusiasm to ensure your emotional and mental stability in relationships with those around you lies almost entirely under the sign of what is called Security Power. An adjustment to your defining elements, in a practical way, by which to detect any negligence in dealing with the unknown. This operation is necessary to avoid harming your authority.

Leadership, which focuses on optimizing human material engineering, filtered only by experiences human beings deal in daily life, is not a background of hope for achieving a high level of vitality internally. It does not always represent a guarantee regarding the protection of fundamental human values, it does not ensure the quality and reliability of the "machine" to spread a non-skid solution, in order to prevent any slippage to extremism, to that awry reality that shakes the foundations of existence, jeopardizing those values that fall within the eligibility criteria set by the two springs of performance: durability and sustainability.

The most valuable values of man are: honesty, respect, hard work, dedication, ambition and empathy.

Are you able to give up on yourself and the values that characterize you only to embrace a new (authoritative) particular status, in the form of a mentality that embraces the paradox?

Senator Ruth Martin is a mentality that embraces the paradox: on the one hand she wants her daughter to be found and saved, on the other she seems to be trying to forget or deny an event that shadows her existence. On the one hand she loves someone, on the other she hates herself because she has come to renounce her faith and to give up in the midst of trouble. On the one hand she understands her leadership potential, but on the other hand she cannot handle her emotions well. Here is what instability is.

Nobody can maintain a constant balance on a glossy surface without an occasional slip. But frequent slipping in one side or another of the individual territory cannot ensure a harmonious development, but rather increases the possibility of his withdraw into loneliness and indecision, inclining towards a suggestible state. And leadership is not an ABS system that keeps you on the road in all conditions, permanently preventing slipping and providing stability on any surface.

Trying to turn leadership into a seat belt, using up your position as a security guard, is like backing up to a reed shaken by the wind. You will be torn between vulnerability and intangibility. You will persist in a contradictory attitude that worsens the situation, undermining the main agent that can change things for the better: that is you. Under these conditions, you will give way to the urgent desire to search for a refuge, while all others will see in you an easily manipulated loser.

Look deeply into yourself, in those resorts that may trigger high amplitude vibrations. Analyze and assess the continuity elements of your personality in critical situations. Must you develop and maintain a preventive maintenance program of sensitive elements of personality?

Leadership is the attitude that you keep unpolished when your heart departs from the importance of the role you play in facing a dead-end situation.

eXtreme Tracking designates the process by which you follow a target while carefully observing your Ego, but also other Egos that will permanently track you during your development. But this progress, in order to be beneficial and consistent with your expectations, must not swing between the two extremes, but have a straight upward trajectory.

* Note: The Silence of the Lambs (1991)

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