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Everything Depends on Who Leads

Life Beyond The Experience Of Life

On April 30, 2014
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Leadership +50% Extra by Neculai Fantanaru

Offer quality to your knowledge, without turning your life into an imitation.

I gradually penetrated a world of values and meanings that became more real and more full of rights than the world of usual experience, in which everything began and ended with me. Or rather with my doppelganger, imitating me throughout, existing only to materialize my passing through this world. A world seen through a wave of compelling metaphors, as if supporting a connection to an artificial satellite orbiting a nearing unidentified orb, which increased, decreased and disappeared.

In the composition of this world created by the power of thought, a jewelry with many perfect pearls could better be replaced with a chain of action full of the unforeseen, supported by an alert rhythm, imagination and originality. Only amid experiences and imaginative understandings. Continuously, I seemed inspired by that area of subjective knowledge to which no matter how much you would try to bring quality to, inherently charged with a production of small or medium complexity, remains only an imitation of life.

Strangely, I interminably felt that I had been administered a single dose of intellectual wealth, as if I had returned full of valuable lessons from an expedition full of unexpected events that carried me through the most delightful corners of the fantastic world, governed by a superior force of knowledge. I invested time into an innovative project, into a vision beyond the "simple", beyond the experience of my own life, gradually becoming an extender of the unknown inner potential.

Examining within my inner forum the life I was about to lead, could I maybe consider it fitting for that harmonious development, so coveted, towards an unknown high?

The reverse phenomenon: Can you help your leadership with the dependency on being connected to an unlikely art by imagining yourself part of an anonymous world that influences the course of defining a higher ideal of reference to a new version of yourself?

The leader has within him, for the mission he has to accomplish as a doer of a thinking that demonstrates the much sought-after superiority of man over everything knowledge represents, two centers: the brain and the heart. Both strengthening his immunity to the widespread disease called "the need of being someone else."

While the concern of a fiction writer, between art and life, is to transport itself into a distant future, dialoguing with the universe in a language unknown to anyone. In the art of writing, trying to reach the novel through a form of imaginary pact with another reality becomes a fashion that returns, a habit that is no longer lost.

From my point of view, the version of the man who looks for the future and aspires to dominate it is the combination of the size of the leader’s vision and the creative dimension of the writer. The first builds the ideal image of what he wants to achieve in the future through more realistic, in-depth, innovative thinking and more adapted to the various living situations. The other creates empathy towards his characters, to his story, challenging readers to an intense and unusual adventure starting from a steady point and continuing to a point B with no return.

Here we have to take into account the consideration of self-dependence, having as its constituent the imaginative experiences and understandings – the result being your duplication in a space of interference of reality with the story of an intellectual arriving at a fixed point of the world, from where it investigates the meanings of the frontier with another world.

The ideal to report to a new personal version concerns that knowledge arising from the mixture of self-domination, motivation, empathy, free thinking, tact, diplomacy, and the process of transforming a plot into truth, whose only purpose is to open yourself to other ways of creating a reality.

Can you create a reality that exists only in terms of what you tell about yourself in a story form, serving to put things in other perspectives or to highlight an unresolved aspect in your being.

You become a virtual agent when your existence becomes just a story invented to justify your passage through this world. In this case, self-reliance means a continuous return to that which can not be changed, regardless of time and circumstances. You no longer live through someone else or for someone else, but you live only through yourself and for yourself, all the "wonders" of the world being seen as mere inert factors.

This is an unlikely art, the art of losing yourself before finding yourself. The only parenthesis that remains to be solved is: "My only regret is loneliness".

You become a robot who must find the shortest route between a starting point, supporting yourself and goading yourself when you have to make real changes on the broad front of knowledge. Or you can become the final point of destination within a real existential space is populated with many clichés and gaps.

Life beyond the existence of life is not just a reality created to become a part of a competitive world, but highlights an unresolved aspect in your being: the inability to choose between the impulse of the sense of surprise in front of another reality and the impulse of feeling insecurity in the face of the future.

Can you help leadership with the sweet dependency to being connected to the art of functioning as a robot? This unlikely way of "being", obviously wins over progress, but only as a "good" of low utility, given that your scientific efforts rises above normal. You basically come to a position in which you are unable to honor your life duties, limiting them. Or, in other words, your life becomes an imitation that serves purposes exterior to it, above yourself.

It is here that the reverse phenomenon takes place. Instead of you turning leadership into a science, leadership makes you into a product designed to meet need of existing science, in connection with obtaining new variables of individual differentiation.

Leadership can be presented as a manifestation of its own aesthetic-creative temperament that resides in the ability to spontaneously and promptly capture the beauty of a particular reality. A reality built on the deepening of an ideal of reference to a world that anyone can approach and begin to know until they finally become a part of it.

Life Beyond The Experience Of Life highlights that exception from the rule by raising the degree of awareness, which negatively influences the meaning of life. It aims towards that belonging to a world full of challenges, but in the same time full of questions and prejudices, through which the creating-leader violates the obligation to respect the rules concerning the insurance of an additional contribution to his own fund of brilliance.

You cannot "shine" if you remain a contributor to a dualistic concept that postulate a distance between knowledge and life, between the unreal world and your self.

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