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Man Between Two Acceptances

On February 17, 2016
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Leadership On/Off by Neculai Fantanaru
Man Between Two Acceptances

Discover the essence that will represent you in each chapter of existence, without falling into an extreme that determines you to evolve towards a passion pushed to ever new limits.

Nothing seemed to be more important in the world, aside from what I felt I am in the first version of a film called "Man between two Acceptances". Whose narrative motor, quite frail, was fueled by the thoughts I reached through a strange complicity with a sort of weakness for the imaginary, from that intellectual impetuosity characteristic to makers of worlds, necessary for the clotting into clear shapes of the always shifting aspects of appearances.

Appearances I would reduce to laws, essences, ignored by most of the so-called experts, ensuring that unity of depth of the vision that is expressed through a certain continuity in discerning the unknowable. Then, I would gently pack the void of meaningless experiences, vague shadows of placings in a confusing, exploratory stage, and I would transform them into a true passion for a particular knowledge.

What was important was that time not forget about me or that I not get lost in it with that inability of coordinating my beautiful crossing of a return to myself. Sometimes, a flash of thought was enough for me to get attached to a journey into the field of the abstract, from which would result the landmarks of a multi-perspective understanding. The symbolic substance of my innovative, high purity lyricism, attracted by the story images that lead you to think of a fairy-tale world, had to facilitate the journey to the judgments of minds that refuse to obey the rules and grow old.

Leadership: Are the features that your image reflects the most important properties of an ascension that is primarily based on organizational criteria within the space of the creative Ego’s relationships with the challenges of temporality?

Before a great leader of Persia appear a strange character who gifted him a game called "Chess", then he initiated him in the mysteries of this escape from the patterns of old habits. Without realizing, he was lured into a trap that not only ruined him economically, but permanently destroyed his horizons. Or did it save him from a continuous existential dilemma? In any case, he fell into the penchant for chess, preferring the strategies of the imaginary over those of the real battlefield. According to legend, the great leader ceased to be a soldier, but on the board, no one could checkmate him.

Who knows which way the invention of a decisive moment that finds its meaning in the inattention given to a random fact will lead you. Something outside your will, something unpredictable, over which you have no control, which determines, which has good or bad effects. The first challenge of temporality is to resist closure in a present that presses you through an act of confession of the desire to live by comparison with the perception of a perfect creation stemming from the subjective projection of the world seen from above from a larger plan.

As for me, I had come to not be interested in neither the infinity of knowledge, and neither the position of a thinker gained through the sweat of the mind, through silent meditations. I was also no longer interested in the glory of victory over space and time the universe had dedicated for me through destiny. I was willing to give up everything for a single thing, for that invention of a moment that would put an end to a deaf battle with myself, for that interesting phenomenon called "being a prisoner" that allowed my exit from the state of reflection.

Everything began to be restricted to moves, laws, and immobilizations in the face of a broader horizon. I had learned to be increasingly temperate. But even temperance was an interesting move.

The most important properties of an ascension that is primarily the organizational criteria in the space of the relations of the creative ego with the challenges of temporality are: the control of several symbolic action fields and the correct appreciation of the position of consciousness of a compositional role, its inner assumption and the emotional impact it triggers in the space of reality beyond appearances.

Leadership: Do you have the ability to bring about the meeting with "SOMETHING ELSE ENTIRELY" through the revelation of an unknown valence of your personality enrolled in the sphere of immediate reality?

Man’s orientation depends not only on the aspects of content and production of the experiences of life, but also on being aware of the shifting aspects of appearances seized daily through a strange complicity with a sort of weakness mixed with a bit of autonomy from the rules imposed by the conventions of an exterior authority.

Generally, people fight for a greater freedom of choice, for the winning of a way of reinventing themselves, but which is later highlighted, in some, by the readiness to yield to a special occupation, to a forced and hard to manage pleasure. The pleasure of evolving in a game in which you are the only winner is a frightening hell from which you cannot escape, or a powerful drug from which you can fully taste without being held liable for the consequences of experiencing it.

Without an essence that can represent you in each life situation, in each chapter of the possibility of achieving the proposed goal by using chosen means, you will fall into an extreme that will either lead you towards exhaustion, or it will determine you to evolve towards a passion pushed to ever new limits, served zealously even to the point of fanaticism.

To make possible the meeting with a "SOMETHING ELSE ENTIRELY" through the revelation of an unknown personality’s valence means creating your opportunity to see from a narrator’s point of view that explains the world he lives in in a different way.

Such a passion, which will generate the inability to coordinate the beautiful happening of a return to yourself, still serves to the representation become concrete of a turning action that changes certain limiting beliefs that refer to the real world. This passion can save you from a continuous existential dilemma, with the price of abandoning the true duties and obligations, which in turn develop the peculiarity of seeing deeper into the aspects of a different reality or teaching.

To seek perfection in any aspects of personal life, but at the same time to change your priorities, preferences, desires, and needs according to an occupation that proves itself to be more valuable than any wealth, because within it is planted the possibility of acceding to a different plan of your high purpose, it is the job of a leadership which claims the call to autonomy.

This type of autonomy allows you some leeway in the space of the freedom of being who you want to be, an unbeatable man, as well as the ability to bring about the meeting with "something else entirely", through the revelation of an unknown valence of your personality.

Leadership is your acceptance of reality to interpret the role of a character whose narrator, in the hypostasis of an Alter-Ego, appears and disappears at the key moments of the event transpiring around him.

Man Between Two Acceptances is characterized through the following, extremely variable, elements: the novelty of discovering a new form of power, in which he becomes invincible, and the freedom of seeing deeper into the aspects of a different reality or teaching. Naturally, the converse also exists, that of falling to an extreme side called fanaticism.

Be careful how you represent yourself to an authority called "obsession", for it can keep you in continuous check. Any excessive activity can cut the Gordian knot of convention with everything that is essential in personal training, canceling the basic routes of life and leadership because of a complacency in an imprisonment that restricts your privilege of being steadfast in your difficulty and noble purpose.

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