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Everything Depends on Who Leads

A Method That Yields Results

On March 16, 2009
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Personal Development by Neculai Fantanaru

Find the element that highlights your operating frequency in order to reap the benefits of a superior performance.

When Columbo investigates a case, no killer escapes. Yes, that it is. The cute detective Columbo, never failed when it came to detecting criminals and catching them. He had an almost brilliant intuition in quickly identifying the most relevant information and linking the details seemingly unimportant at first sight. However, the secret of his success was not only due to his intuition, but also to his very sophisticated method that he applied in the process of investigation.

To be sure that the murderer was the suspect whom he was investigating, Columbo had to check his reasoning.

For example, in one of the episodes, during the investigation, Columbo asks the supposed murderer to help him reconstruct how the crime was committed. Thus, on the reason that he does not like guns, Columbo gives a gun to the suspect and asks him to shoot a bullet in a brand-new sponge mattress in order to investigate whether the bullet it is shot identical to that found in the victim's body. The murderer suddenly panicked. And as Columbo anticipated, he tried to find an explanation of how the crime was made, demonstrating his innocence, "You have the gun, the bullet, the document which identifies the owner. It is clear that I am not the murderer."

Columbo often applied this method of intimidating the suspect. By giving him the murder gun, he watched carefully how he reacts, trying to justify himself for something he didn't do.

Are you able to establish the truth and the source of your own authority, the same as other people assume the interior states during the continuous update of their identity?

The man’s inclination towards that truth which makes him free with respect to his own being and to the effects his actions produce, not depending on any obligation assumed by his own will, is following the example of his nature - designed to check his representation errors.

You transmit what you represent. Man is, on the one hand, a universe rich in feelings, a whole defined by thought, but mostly an accumulation of updates of his evolution that helps to better measure the impact of circumstances allowing him to value his potential to the maximum.

In an attempt to express different aspects and manifestations considered important in a state of becoming which judges the moment’s steps on the scale of values, where the emphasis is on seemingly unimportant details, leadership is achievable by means of investigating that reason delegated to discover the truth about man.

This truth is closely related to the circumstances that favor or disfavor its role within society or in certain circumstances. How do you relate to people who exercise their emotions, virtues and strength of mind?

Can you turn yourself into a coherent WHOLE regarding the way in which you access a reality that hides under various "masks" the experiences of people and the deepest nuances of their motivation?

If you want to integrate in the size of a leadership corresponding to a raw, unfiltered of doubts human reality, but that actually lives largely by connecting to the interior states of people (it becomes a real challenge to interpret them), you must reach that evolutionary level of knowledge that enables you to know truths beyond their self-imposed breastplate.

And if people must decide with the help of their mind how to cultivate, train and proliferate feelings that have the potential to harm their ethics and image, the leader aims to bring them back to a reality they seem to have left forever.

This implies experiencing that consciousness that, surpassing the feeling, should urge people to fairness and integrity, pushing them to be present, identifiable and recognizable by a judgment which is rather related to a realistic philosophy within the moralistic approaches, rather than the "show" created by an escape from normality patterns.

Being able to establish the truth supporting human consciousness gives total power to the source of your own authority. A leader takes into account the principles on which it builds the real identity of people, trying to find himself in those bits of soul they offer.

Listen to the definition of identity that someone suggested on a website: "Identity is what provides continuity of the inner life of man; it is the stable part, always identical with itself, of the human being, which is carried from one stage to another, second by second, throughout all life experiences and creates a coherent whole of a person."

Can many aspects of your own motivation be understood through the simple analysis of the abilities that accompany you on the road towards capitalizing on the reality perceived by filtering the experiences of others?

If you are passionate about geography, then you probably know that the landscape fragmentation density is the element of analysis that highlights the alternation frequency of the valley couloirs with the interfluvial surfaces. In relative terms, this density can be regarded as small, medium and large, by the simple observation of a topographical map. In case you need a higher precision, it is necessary to draw up a map of the horizontal fragmentation of the landscape based on calculating the ratio between the total length of the valley system (in km) and the surface, on which will be performed their measurement.

You will be incapable of reaping the fruits of a performance that would confer you some superiority over others, if you fail to fragment your attention. Or if you do not allow to your beliefs to be concerned with all the details that complete your personality. The more attention you pay to the mental map which allows you to completely change the perspective of approaching the functioning of the human being, the more you can better understand the beliefs that govern your mind.

You could also be a Columbo of your own thoughts, of your personality, if you pay attention to the details that make your judgment to be a more malleable process in the detection and elimination of your own "malfunctions". If you draw a map of your personality structure, the detective within you, will help you understand easier the impulses, the moral and social tendencies, and the way you are perceived by others - based on the report of the active and the passive within you, between your actions and your values, namely between the form of your ego and its truth content.

Is your leadership made up of a psychological intervention that takes into account numerous perspectives of approaching the functioning of the human being in relation to a reality that supports or denies the truths inscribed in a situation of the type: "trap"?

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