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Everything Depends on Who Leads

Spiritual Sensitivity

On April 09, 2011
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Qualities of A Leader by Neculai Fantanaru

The greatest gain in life is the loss of that Ego which believes it knows everything.

A wealthy merchant, but with a poor soul. That was the multimillionaire Edward Lewis, whose only concern was to make high-level business - to buy properties in bankruptcy and then to sell them at a much higher price. Very clever, refined, knowledgeable of the latest market trends, fully familiar with the intricate subtleties of the law and, above all, fond of power. But the situation was troubling his soul.

Although his business kept getting better, he seemed to sink more and more in sadness. But, arrived to Hollywood, he encounters Vivian Ward, a prostitute who still was different from all others of her kidney. She was very cute and had a great soul. For this reason, he hired her as a lady companion. The best decision of his life.

If you watched the movie "Pretty Woman" then you know the rest of the story. In that seven days they stand together, Vivian manages to instill in the Edward's soul a deep sense of calm and tranquility, prompting him to focus on the good aspects of his life, inoculating him that insatiable desire to love and to let be loved. From a cold man with no romantic manifestations, obsessed only of business and money, Edward Lewis is changing into another character, a sort of modern Prince Charming.

Can you put an end to the conflict between what is seen and what is hidden by beginning with a change in the way you see yourself, beyond the consciousness that expresses itself through feeling?

What was the core generator of the Edward Lewis change?

Vivian marked Edward's career path, impelling him to resume his life, to believe again in love and to fight to maintain it. As a true lady, she knew how to enforce his feelings to the point that he did not have other way than to be fully devoted to her. So she illumined his way to understanding the true purpose of life, permanently removing him from the harmful effects caused by his profitable business, but unrighteous. He opened a new file in his life, clean, fairy, which has improved his state of mind.

The change occurred when Edward stopped to see people with the eyes that he saw the surrounding things. Vivian entered the scene of his life and offered quality to his transformation determining him to see people with the eyes of his soul. Look at the people with the eyes of your soul for your influence to be positive.

Does the image you project into the world harmonize with the soul through which you look at yourself in the sincere act of self-examination?

Your state of mind expresses the way you behave and see the others. The way you see people, the way you perceive them determines your success or your failure in leadership. Look at the people with the eyes of your soul for your influence to be positive. But how do you deal with yourself in front of everybody?

Leadership primarily involves your relationship with others. And if your image is not in harmony with your soul, you will not ever be able to approach people. They will feel your coldness and will become more reluctant about you. They would categorize you as an insensitive man, unaware of their needs and problems, and will follow you without joy, or worse, will leave you.

The image that you associate with the idea of the soul, not only does not alienate one another, but on the contrary, they constantly lend each other a hand to rely on each other in a continuous synergy. They are like two flowers that, in order to create value, must preserve their precious essence not in an impenetrable mystery, but in a charming, often subtle way. As on the outside, so within.

To distinguish the image created by reason from the image created by the soul, we have the right to say that it is of great significance for the process of remembrance of the personality facet that you present and which you master best. The duality of the two images is not, in any case, a merit of the consciousness of opening up to the world, because the way they intertwine and feed each other depends on the force of your intention to enter the game of maturity and attraction.

Leadership is the visible projection of self-image, transformed into an expression of authentic living through which the deep gratitude that gives meaning to life is revealed.

Spiritual sensitivity is the key to a better communication with others, but primarily towards a better understanding of privacy. It marks your positive attitude in life, determines you to seek and to focus on what it is right and not on what it is wrong. Also, it indicates that you are a wonderful person with a rich spiritual life. Who would not follow such a person?

People will never feel connected to you if you lack the spiritual sensitivity. To establish relationships with others you must have a certain presence and a dignity worthy of attention and a role model - that of a great man with high moral values and with a great soul.

Can you turn yourself in such a person?

Conclusion: Often people are evaluated not only with the mind, but also with the soul. A leader who looks at the people and with the "eyes of the soul" with certainty will have a positive influence on them.

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