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The Anxiety Of The Mind That Triggers Transformation

On September 19, 2013
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Leadership Expert by Neculai Fantanaru

Focus on a transformation vision, so that you pass the difficult test that tries your active elements, with respect to safety and self-trust.

A flickering fire keeps Catherine Martin alive. She is the victim of a compromising experimental situation, from the point of view of the psychic demands she has to respond to. She’s the protagonist of a difficult test that tries her active elements, with respect to safety and self-trust. Her nervous batteries are chaotically charged, while the flexibility and ductility of her character are compromised.

There is a precedent in this regard, that would terrify her so much. She had taken the decision to display a heroic behavior and not give up in front of the worst negative pressures that now lead to a nervous breakdown, inhibiting the self-defense impulses and initiatives, attracting it towards introversion and anxiety. Her mood stimulates the untamed potential of climbing the intangible mountain of the chain that surveys over the functional area, the Thought of Death.

Entrapped in a hostile space, in the middle of the thickest despair, where it’s almost as if decay and the sensation of being someone else had settled in, Catherine gives up for good the feeling that in Buffalo Bill’s soul there is a shard of goodness. Soon, he will kill her !

Do you submit to an attempt to take control of the entire experience of using your feelings of belonging to a new personality testing environment in how you choose to respond to the pain you feel in the interaction set by the compromise of your own identity with the world?

There is an activation of the transformation substance, of intrinsic nature, that almost drives her away from her instincts. Her big horrified eyes, her troubled face, her clenched muscles, her shaking hands, everything is an eloquent witness to her heated fight with the impossible, with patience and determination in a continuous stage of heavy tension.

The operation that prevents and treats human mind – subject to a systematic torture, directly triggered by exterior pressures that determine bad mood and irritability oscillations – is called transformation. This transformation leaves behind a psychic and emotional corpse and resurrects the substance, which potentially diffuses the high-frequency pulsations that recompose the stimulatory source of unsuspected energies.

Faith is resurrected. The body function gradually goes back to normal. This desperate being shakes off anxiety. It overcomes the limited resistance moods. The inner pulsation, which activates and rushes all reaction instincts, also determines an unexpected action drive. The force of passionate calling towards a new functional stage, towards a stage of supreme consciousness, is manifested by finding a redeeming solution. Thus, the ship of faith turns to a different direction, which favors the overcoming of the crisis.

Do you include the phenomena that become an obstacle in a new environment of existence by completely removing the reality that you have become accustomed to or are you going to force your limits to find out what you are really capable of?

The art of knowing the manifestations of human nature, fully exploring them in man’s insides in order o discover the material of the supposedly basic convictions that limit or amplify his moods, could be defined, rightfully speaking, as "luxury". A deep matter connected with knowing the human being subject to the effects of his instincts and inner forces. An aspect, which unfortunately is ignored more and more. Because not everyone has access to it, as it is not profitable, materially speaking.

But it could be an investment that protects leadership from its still unfinished elements, which in full development of an action, can damage the individual’s safety.

As a hard to reproduce art, non-transmissible, leadership takes on a new dimension, which would be highly appreciated in the future. At the moment it’s just under-fueled with new kinds of thinking and action. It becomes a model of analysis, a screen that unlocks the internal temporary factors of man’s personality, which only evolutionist psychology applies in its attempts to understand the design of human mind.

In the final and most vulnerable state, that fully polishes your accomplishment of becoming a leader, going through the blocking and rebuilding stage, rummaging through the introspection a critical event brings up, leadership can be approached only directly.

In the position of selecting the qualities and deficits comprised in the inner frame, shaped with optimistic dimensions that ensure a superior resistance for requests of any kind, you are forced to shift your attention from feelings, to the duty towards your existence when it’s endangered by foreign forces.

Are you able to put a new pair of glasses on your mind without taking on a reflexive reaction or without creating an ego that deters you from your quality of a "product of reality"?

Leadership takes on an important role when you give your mind a new pair of glasses and you try to win in an ambiguous situation that triggers the war with yourself. If you become the protagonist of a difficult test that tries your active elements, with respect to safety and self-trust (and I wish weak characters won’t have to go through this kind of experiences), it means that all the qualities that could contribute to preserving the safety zone, by regulating the psyche and mood, are real and dominant.

The newly installed tensions, which reduce the output of your personality’s flexibility and ductility structural characteristics, can’t be defeated or substituted by a decision that dodges reality at any time and at any rate. Because that would ignore the quality of the material you’re made of. That’s why, an activation of the transformation substance, of intrinsic nature, that triggers the fighting instincts, is absolutely necessary in order to become a true leader.

The difficulties regarding psychical translocation towards a reference point, such as faith and self-trust, don’t ensure an efficient action drive, a wall against the weakness to fight all the way. So you are set back by your own inability. In this case, leadership is calculated based on the minimum probability to win. And this means you allowed the substitution of leadership with a weak distribution of your excellence values towards exclusion, or even cancellation.

You become stronger as the possibilities to support an experience without horizon or to eliminate the bond with the feeling of inability are higher. If you want to finalize in good conditions the passage to a broader territory of self-control, focus on a transforming vision, so that you pass the difficult test that tries your active elements, with respect to safety and self-trust.

Leadership approach gets close to what you choose to be when you struggle with the impossible, with patience and will, in a continuous state of pressing tension, around an ego that tends to convince you of your quality of a "product of reality".

The reflexive reaction that urges you to follow a new existential path is a method of removing the side-effects produced by an acute reality by finding new reasons to explore a world that is too harsh for the life you have at your disposal to find out what miracles and mysteries it is hiding.

Your change begins with his determination to reconsider your reality in terms of a release from the storm of your own emotions, from the trap of a life lived in suffering, feeding your conscience with the following compromise: "I accept that I have fallen into a pit, but I will never accept to remain there ! "

The anxiety of the mind that triggers transformation is nothing else but the mobility of intrinsic forces in critical, overwhelming and inhibiting situations, which block every action. The characteristic of people with a strong psychic, of exceptional leaders, is to quickly and efficiently counteract this anxiety, which as it gets deeper and extends on a longer period of time, could even endanger the individual’s life.

* Note: The Silence of the Lambs (1991)

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