Neculai Fântânaru

Everything Depends on Who Leads

The Authenticity Effect

On December 24, 2023
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Leadership W3-Integra by Neculai Fantanaru

One of the essential conditions of a successful action is to give yourself totally at the moment of creation, not holding it back and not truncating it with anything.

Any talent has a lot to gain if it gives itself totally to its nature, not letting itself be embarrassed by any kind of external considerations. This is the case of the former hockey player Doug Dorsey from the movie " ", to whom destiny entrusted the task of asserting himself in another direction, similar, but still so different: figure skating. In fact, the transition from hockey to figure skating enlivened his dull and dusty existence in a way he could not even imagine, because any sign of a change in activity, a focus on new ideals, is for a former champion reached a pathetic stage, similar to Christ's resurrection from the grave.

One of the essential conditions of a successful action is to give yourself totally at the moment of creation, not holding it back and not truncating it with anything, so that the potential of the reaction between the result and the personal value is proportional to the effort invested. Such a state, such an impulse that heals wounds, even if it is not yet inspiration, is still very close to the point that determines success, being able to even bring the individual to a world of stories, where dreams come true. In this "there is no other way" context, figure skating is born and becomes a fertile substrate for a return to the fertile ground of glory.

And, of course, as in any action movie where glory is accompanied by misadventures, one gets an effect of authenticity only when one thinks about the effect, when passion merges with hopeless love. His new partner, the talented Kate Moseley, at the same time a former champion, is an example of stability in the reaction of the "otherwise" type, being motivated by the desire to shock the whole world, having in her, as it were, a champion gene that catalyzes success only through determination and perseverance.

Do you try to find your value in the variations of contrast between soul and creative expression, so that you present your individuality through gradations of shades of your artistic vision?

All this seemed a very heavy task for many men, not for one. We can only imagine his efforts to start over, having as his partner precisely the most capricious skater in the world. Dorsey refused to be Kate's puppet, whose stage was everywhere, and whose strings stretched far up into a charming and exclusive paradise. And Kate was forced by circumstances to give up Ego.

Motivated by universal impulses, they had no alternative but to simultaneously approach each other, through a kind of soul connection, considering that time was flowing as quickly as possible, and the ironies between them only led to complications. In this case, the term "variation" represents the difference between an individual desired outcome and the average of a set of gratifying outcomes.

On her, something determined her to be different, a kind of magnetism of elegance that attracted the eyes and inspiration, but with wide ramifications in a kind of Ermatos Thaeae Umhiaoscul, a bridge between the heart and the divine mind. Moreover, something of her soul seemed to be revealed throughout the film, regarding her new partner. Through the attitude, on a subtle level, something of Kate seemed to convey to Dorsey, especially before the final test of the competition where they barely qualified:

"I am simply giving you my knowledge that you need to move forward because, after all, you are the fruit of my love, and you must not be lost. Your continued success honors us both. The Creator was proud of you, even if in a moment of weakness he tried to leave you. That's how the gods are sometimes, capricious. Now is the time to give your best."

Can you explore the process of receiving an image that will follow you all your life, adding an imaginary reversibility and a view that includes the "measure of the superlative"?

"Don't stop being more than you can be" - this is without a doubt the moral of the film, which is worth revisiting every winter. Both protagonists, in relation to the true orientation that leads to success, having in their souls the presentiment of their ideal future, carried the seal of their Olympic origin on their foreheads.

To experience the sensations of a very successful figure skating number means to carry, to feel in your own soul, the entire richness, the entire depth of the protagonists, the entire length of their content, to suffer from their sufferings, to go through the torments of their bitterness, through the happiness of their joy, of their victory, of their hopes.

And even if I don't know much about skaters, few of them having the happiness to stand out in the great arena of champions, like divine stars, I can say that watching this film I had the opportunity to feel how the particular perfection was combined with the great merits of love, divine treasures that are only really highlighted in the last minutes of the film.

Yes. Flexibility in meeting a change of plans, a situation you did not think about, is the key to an unexpected, but triumphant and very rich, material and spiritual success at the same time. This fact in no way disturbs the elegance of the divine work, but reveals by itself the fact that the process of transposing a dream into reality, provided you are actually gifted with an original talent, denotes a remarkable achievement, sufficient to authenticate your presence in the creative universe, adding your own original and authentic stamp.

The measure of the superlative, in leadership, is given by the unexpected result that you reach with great difficulty, one that reflects your authenticity and artistic genius viewed as a divine gift.

The Effect of Authenticity resides in the achievement of a realization to which God has contributed, you yourself being the divine instrument that transposes into reality creations enlivened with the image of divinity. So, the effect of authenticity is gained through a remarkable achievement to which divine inspiration contributes, along the lines of some twists and turns of situations that make you say: "Yes, this actually happened in reality, even if it seemed like just a dream."

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