Neculai Fântânaru

Everything Depends on Who Leads

The Continuity Formula Of Leadership

On January 17, 2016
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Leadership N6-Celsius by Neculai Fantanaru

Learn to become an authentic force of progress in the space of staging a great role, ennobling you with the magic of a unique experience.

I was full of desire of moving forward at my own pace, in the singularity of a voice often turned into whisper, coming from somewhere, I don’t know where from, but I was about to clear it up eventually. As one of those who embrace from the very first moment the path offered before them, known only by God, because everything has an ambiguous meaning, suspecting along it a fascinating and at the same time strange world.

Categorically. I was heading to a meeting with myself seen from the perspective of a test of consciousness to allow the fine distinction between what I was experiencing through life experience and what I was experiencing through the feeling of communion with another being, full of contradictions, full of mysteries, full of ghostly energies. In samples of short duration, as is the sprint on the distances started from a failure and ended with great joy, I could fill my void full of doubt that I carried within me, that void so necessary for victory, a completely new defiance in the darkness of the moment tumbling at my feet.

The world is constantly changing its batteries, dynamism becomes the touchstone of true characters, demanding endless divisions between winners and losers. When everything seems like a calling, you suddenly find yourself trapped in a vortex of surprising situations, explosions of contradictory feelings, from a conscience of fear to one of victory. God is near you, cradles you in a state of intense debasement, He is there in those hours of non sai più cosa credere, being heard only by a soft, quiet voice, not through the physical senses, but through the touch of the heart and of the mind: “One day you will understand everything.”

How do you experience that reality of your being that you want to emphasize in a context of uncertainty that has never been experienced before, depending on being in contact with someone else who is on the ground of the true observation of life?

At all times I was clinging to something insignificant so that I could follow the steps that a strange destiny seemed to lead me through with a strong and constant voice, neglecting the sight of a full twinning of all things and phenomena around. It was as if I had to recognize myself as a stranger to myself in a known territory, only because it seemed to me that I did not quite master the essence of reality (to accept a spiritual and prophetic vision of things), that I could not rely on it, that I cannot get along with anyone, unable to reconcile with what is happening on the stage of life.

In my deep sincerity, taken to the limit of the unassailable obsession of being different – it’s driving me crazy, in the understanding and worry that stemmed from the strict momentum of a warlike attitude, I often introduced the idea of equivalence of the various types of assessing a broad spectrum of options and strategies of moving forward to a reality that does not get stuck within its own limits. The motivation to continue to experience a changed state of mind, excessive concern for various things or aspects of life, for day to day, ordinary or minor issues, was in fact an effort to think about how to get deeper into what it means to be myself in a world that is constantly trying to shape me into something else.

From everything that adds up and is subtracted from a guidance of seeing the whole picture, from the unspoken words of a rebellion of the pride that governs as it wishes the "reinvent yourself" impulses, equal to the sum of heat exchanges given off by feelings and passions, revolutionizing the very concept of vital force, a new being is born.

A being more miraculous in its existence than the first. The fair solution to an outfitting with certain limits, it seems to be that it has to be sought in the meaning of an alternative: to sit in a corner of the world and wait for someone else to surpass me. Which is, useless to say, something that is simply not my style.

Do you continue to move forward in the direction of undetermined results, through a series of converging representations of yourself which determines the development of a reason such as: "the value you attach to assuming a strong role is favorable to the creation of a story that is written by itself" ?

To be able to turn leadership into a pedestal on which you can assume a change of your way of thinking, a lesson necessary for development, you must try to rebuild the road that every man of great character has walked when they felt a powerful impulse to explore their inner world, in order to bring to light the mysteries that lie locked away within its depths, serving them faithfully.

Firdtjof Nansen has won his glory of being first in great contests, skiing and speed skating, where he had won for 12 years in a row. The sport however did not overshadow his other, fairly broad aspirations. But when he was about to pick the road he would follow in life, he felt somewhat disoriented. He wanted a military career, he wanted to study medicine, and later decided on zoology. Eventually, he became a great scholar, and not just a great explorer. He mange to make history and put himself in the service of mankind, like no other, thanks to his own motto: "Keep moving forward ! "

Developing a reason through which you can recognize the worth of others, trying to assimilate those inner forces that are oriented towards magnificent results from the outer world, is necessary to determine the tendency of assuming a powerful role and interpreting it in a "story" of success. A story that you would say writes itself, because it starts from something seemingly accidental, without too much significance, and turns into something completely unexpected, grandiose, innovative.

Inspiration stemming from the study of a role-model, taking on all the pains, torments, hopes, and joys during his attempts of winning the title of champion, transform into a space of expansion, turning your mind and soul into a compass of reinvention and becoming.

A convergent representation of yourself during the development of an existence often based on constraints, rather than joys, is obtained through the idea of ​​exiting the limiting patterns.

This idea can be presented in the following way: “You can only gain the measure of your value by confronting feared situations or the most prosaic of deeds.”

People aspiring to be conquerors manage to put into perfect agreement with their models those experiences, attitudes, aspirations, feelings, horizons, by treating them as they would, as sources of income, as long term investments. They not only master their hearts with the magic of electrifying stories, they do not let themselves lured by the magic of a plunge into a realism that is but a simple frame of the Story, they also try to ennoble themselves with the magic of a unique experience.

To continue to move forward in the direction of undetermined results, through a series of converging representations of yourself, means to never say "I do not act in this great role", whatever that role may be in the production of your life. But rather to make use of all qualities extracted from the steps and teachings drawn from the lives of others, in order to reach your own greatness, to build your own legend.

Have you assigned yourself a name in the space of a bestseller field?

The leader assumes a strong role as a contributor to changing the world through the motto of the writer Ioan Romoşan: “You can only have dignity in the face of death by knowing that the life you’ve lived served a purpose.”

The Continuity Formula Of Leadership can be extracted from the equation "Me + The rest of the world", where the "Me" represents, regardless of the assumed role, that deterministic instance available only in its uniqueness, constantly present in the evolution of the world.

And "Them" representing a veritable adventure, a journey into the past or present, through the multitude of knowledge, intentions, actions, and consequences, made after much hesitation and swinging between contradictory feelings, in which is reflected the theme of durable development and competitiveness.

Competitiveness is the engine of evolution. Without competition, performance cannot be obtained. And nothing can be more appropriate for the image of the leader than to be ranked first.

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