The Difficult Target From The Box Of The Accused

The way you face the reality that others intend to impose on you, is the result of the transformation process that brings you face to face with yourself.

It was something totally unexpected. The woman shuddered at the sight of the assassin, as if she would be touched with a red iron, because she felt a terrible thrill passing through whole her body, incinerating all her hope, all the power hidden in the subconscious, all the unmanifested feelings.

Her innocence and his justice intertwined with a dizzying will and determination. As if between the two of them would have been a unique parallel, direct and disturbing: her weakness, her education in the spirit of the church - and his instinct of a killer, to which is added his role as an intermediary link between the "procedural exceptions and defenses background" between a pure acceptance and renunciation of principles.

The poor woman was aware that her hour has come. She unwillingly became a target. The moment arrived when she has to be put to the test. Her heart ached. For a moment, she felt transported into another world, of the defeated, of the exiled, of the ones taken out of the laws’ defense. She caught a propitious moment, and looked into the eyes of the killer, pondering it all. It was impossible to escape. From all the parts were watching the iron laws of justice. She was in a box of the accused.

Is the lesson given to you by the hazard that of having the ability to diminish the potential of a danger before it hits?

O realitate impusă cu scopul de a deturna opţiunile individului. Seized by a sense of rebellion, of culpability, so deeply rooted that no logic, and no reason could not ever annihilate it, the woman gathered all the courage of her heart and said:

- You have no reason to hurt me...

- No, but I gave my word, replied the assassin. Your husband had the chance to save you. But, he used you in trying to save himself.

- You should not do this, said the woman with a voice of an angel.

As a superior man, as a merciful judge who grants a last chance to the one condemned to death, Anton Chigurh throws up a coin twenty-five cents, catches it, and tells her:

- Okay, that's all I can do for you. Choose.

- No ! I will not choose ! categorically replied the woman with a striking courage, worthy of a warrior. The coin has nothing to say. *

Can you analyze yourself from the perspective of a self-evident understanding by experiencing that sense of distance from suffering that has very little connection with the present, but makes you think that you belong to something or someone?

Someone well-remarked: "The reality that you live is the mirror reflecting everything inside you: compassion, hope, humanity, solidarity, positive thoughts, forgiveness, inner peace, confidence and faith."

If this reality, in which you find yourself it is stolen, modified according to the will of others, subject to some different criteria than those which should prevail, then it will produce a trigger in your way of being.

Instead of evolving towards a higher level of your consciousness, with which to resonate 100%, so towards a deep understanding of the essence from whom you are molded, you will be anchored as a rusty wreck in an enclosed space, not ventilated, in which the "nothingness" will take roots. A flow of an abnormal change process, forced, which sometimes significantly exceeds that form of reality that you claimed it over the years.

The leadership may prove useless, devoid of substance, if it reduces the degree of strength and protection in the collision with an opposite pole. It can turn into an agent of a rupture with yourself and with the nature which it creates, with the resources, which it puts you on hand in order to keep your status as a man of great character.

A kind of sabotage from outside, from the unpredictable direction of an elite led by other principles, unhealthy, and in the other terms that are not characteristic to it, which do not honors the most basic values.

Can you face the uncertainty of a final result by a deviation from the general rule according to which throughout your life you pay more and more for what you receive than for what you give.

Do you unwillingly become a target of the reality of others? How do you manifest your personality at the contact with another reality? Do you feel transported to another world, of the defeated ones? Are you in the box of the accused? How can you maintain your stability in the conflict between the accusers and defenders?

You cannot be a great man, if you continue endlessly to stay small in the eyes of others, if you let yourself caught, like a snowball rolling continuously in various situations, in which you find it difficult to act.

If the source of values that feeds your beliefs It stops functioning, your way towards achieving perfection will break down and will continue to slide until any intervention, and any major manifestation of your will no longer be useful.

Can you face the reality that others intend to impose upon you in a world where nothing seems to be what it is and where anything, absolutely anything, can happen?

To confront the reality that others are trying to impose on you is like collecting mirrors, neutral surfaces against which you can look weak or strong in order to see yourself reflected. It is an attempt to reveal without restraint your fidelity towards your own identity, a form of manifestation of the purest side of your Ego, which constantly watches over you, especially in the harsh conditions.

For your development to be as healthy as possible try to follow carefully the red thread of the events that challenge you, independent of your reason, that unsettle you and involve you in a risky game. Try to foresee what does not fit in any way with your searches and do not let yourself be captured by the strange force of the hazard and coincidences that make it so that, at a given time, each to be close to each other, looking for or just intersecting without his will.

Beyond your values and beliefs that you create by building relationships, since this is a constant process, any prospects that make you understand the true essence of your own personality, must be at any moment and under all conditions, possible.

The precarious reasoning that allows for the existence of the factor called "resignation" interferes with what you find needs to be changed in the world starting with what happens to you in a way that sees beyond the limitations of immediate reality and the danger of the facts that spread out before you in your life.

The difficult target from the box of the accused is the man who, depending on the hazard, is condemned without his will to change his destiny. He goes from one stage of acceptance to one of survival !

Are you ready to start an assessment of the reality that you live, when you are under the influence of the ones estranged of the sound principles of leadership? The boundary between accepting their reality or rejecting it, being anyway extremely fragile.

To accept the reality that others are trying to impose on you, always requires an assessment of your own principles, feelings and modalities of action. Do you accept turning into a gravedigger of the reality that you live, or to become its architect?

As a leader, you must be in compliance with reality, but also to yourself - that unitary whole (composed of ideas, concepts, principles and feelings) strengthened over time. Accepting a reality imposed, in disagreement with what you are, can send you into the box of the accused. Be faithful to your principles and your Ego, be yourself an impartial judge of what you are, and you will prove your innocence and fidelity towards you, and towards the people, who have invested their trust in you.

The way you face the reality that others intend to impose on you, is the result of the transformation process that brings you face to face with yourself.

* Note: No Country for Old Men (2007