Neculai Fântânaru

Everything Depends on Who Leads

The Fierce Embrace Of The Devil

On August 31, 2010
, in
Leadership FX-Intensive by Neculai Fantanaru

Increase your leadership power, without becoming a prisoner of your own passions.

Qin Shi Huang Di was a brilliant strategist. He conquered all of China, which even today bears his name. Even so, how did he get the most powerful and feared man in the world at that time? Nothing simpler: keeping humanity "in chess", as well as always guiding himself by the principle: "The end justifies the means".

His empire had to be eternal. He defeated kingdom after kingdom by the force of arms. All prisoners were executed. He didn't admit his orders to be discussed. Everything, even the interests of those who supported him, had to be subordinated to his. Obsessed by the idea to reach his goals at any cost, he always acted mercilessly and unforgiving.

For a man who has the passion of power and glory, but especially that of power, people's lives have no price. Fearful of what people think about his mean and inhumane actions and decisions, Qin Shi Huang Di found a reason to execute 460 scholars, a crime that, above others, lodged in the memory of his people. Hundreds of thousands of people suffered in order to build the emperor a giant mausoleum, an underground palace guarded by an army of terracotta, and a huge wall designed to provide defense to his kingdom.

Do you correctly assess the level of experience in judging the character of a superior destiny that assumes a long history, in the light of a natural detachment from the situation in which you are entitled to consider yourself as the victim of a fatal stumble?

Certainly, the devil's best friend is the man who, only if he manages to win by his side can reach his goal. However, once you're under his supreme power, he has the right over the life and death of each and everyone, because the devil never accepts defeat. Once you get into hell, once you're caught in his demonic claws, you can't do anything – You're trapped like in a spider web, which is woven more and more around you, and you're held prisoner like in a hypnotic trance.

The one who imagined that kindness ruled the world was terribly wrong. The Emperor Qin Shi Huang Di became the embodiment of people's fears. He manifested in his actions with all his power and his wickedness. Even so, besides the fact that he was very stubborn, he had a very great power of persuasion.

The people who served the king’s interests were entitled to consider themselves the victim of a fatal stumble, because their minds did not filter the smooth running of events through special spiritual richness, through permanent tendencies of high moral value, but rather through a lack of respect for the rules and laws of life in society.

They could not lucidly judge the character of their ruler precisely because their reason for living was not based on truth, teaching, the principle of equal rights, but on the historical syndrome of standing with its head bowed like a doomed person.

Can you extract from your life those meanings attributed to the relationship between what is revealed to you as an unquestionable reality and what is revealed to you as far more comprehensive than what the image of an unlimited power can offer you?

He was an expert in mesmerism, and had that unhealthy ability to hypnotize masses of people. He exercised from far a malicious telepathic influence to poison the souls of innocent people not suspecting anything. Therefore, many were left prey to his superior will, waiting for him to decide for them. Many were ready to sacrifice their lives by the name of his high ideals, and the beliefs which he created.

I wonder why a man would give his life, with such a big joy, for his leader. Firstly, the leader must fully correspond to his expectations. And a Don Juan of the darkness can twist people's minds with a supposedly healthy reasoning and coherence in thought that they, without being seized by a doubt, immersed in a state of general euphoria, to be ready to give their lives for him.

It's true, in order to handle people, you should be able to penetrate inside them, to freeze their souls so deeply that they are no longer able to properly discern between good and evil. And by his power and art, the devil always manages to achieve this performance. His mental omnipotence troubles so much the good discernment of his servants that they devoted to him body and soul, are signing their own death sentence.

Are you able to experience that “divinity” within you, without becoming the slave of that image of the power that breaks the pressure of your own devouring energy, released by a destiny without escape?

The man who lets himself be led by a tyrant is a humble witness to events that he cannot control, because he is not willing to attribute to life the meaning of “glory”, that glory gained through a set of free and fair choices, through an elevation of their spiritual force, not in a certain way to refer to someone stronger and with vision. Most weak people serve a self-imposed authority, gained through a spirit of service to certain ideals of enslavement.

Once fallen under the devil's domination, human's life hangs by a thread. However, his future depends on people as well. For he uses people as a support he can freely lean against. For this reason, he can't choose total indifference towards them, by adopting a constructive attitude, he makes sure they will meet some of his certain needs and only then, when they are no longer needed, he gets rid of them. For the good running of his business is influenced only by results, which depend on the performance of his subjects. And the demoralization of people, the lack of productivity and proactivity are the most significant risk factors.

Is your inner voice pushing you toward deep inner evolution, transforming you into a stronger, more authentic version of yourself beyond what you thought were your limits?

An evil genius must be killed or locked in a coffer, or you must determine him to accept his hostile fate and resign himself. Nevertheless, the extraordinary power of Emperor Qin Shi Huang Di, his demonic power over souls was too big. There were no cells or walls to stop him. People could only delude themselves, thinking that he is mortal, and some day, they will be able to escape from that hell.

A cold-hearted being and reckless in his passion, always lacking measure, ruled by overstrung feelings, cannot foster strong positive feelings for someone, but selfish or unfair, which will ultimately lead him to failure. The Emperor Qin Shi Huang Di was supposed to be eternal. However, he ended in chaos. Furthermore, he died after he swallowed a pill of mercury, which was supposed to extend his life. Death was the enemy that he feared a lifetime, and which he could not defeat.

Leadership is the aspiration to know an experience of a life without fighting, bitterness and frustration that are draining your energy, with the specification that the will to overcome a passion is the only tool of self-expression that controls its sorrow or suffering.

In leadership you simply must make a slip towards legend possible, by the heroic act of discarding the self that anticipates its lack of fulfillment.

The Fierce Embrace Of The Devil is accepted only by people without faith in a meaning of life, those who would rather accept to be led than to lead their own destiny on the path that fulfils dreams.

In leadership, you cannot succeed based on the principle "The end justifies the means" and you cannot lead with a tyrannical policy because you will end up badly. To value the power without caring for those around you, to sacrifice everything, including people, means to turn away from the notion of leader (who is elected), and to become a tyrant (who is required by force), drawing the dispraise of those around you who, sooner or later, will remove you from the lead.

Increase your leadership power, but without becoming a prisoner of your own passions.

Alatura-te Comunitatii Neculai Fantanaru
The 63 Greatest Qualities of a Leader
Cele 63 de calităţi ale liderului

Why read this book? Because it is critical to optimizing your performance. Because it reveals the main coordinates after that are build the character and skills of the leaders, highlighting what it is important for them to increase their influence.

Leadership - Magic of Mastery
Atingerea maestrului

The essential characteristic of this book in comparison with others on the market in the same domain is that it describes through examples the ideal competences of a leader. I never claimed that it's easy to become a good leader, but if people will...

The Master Touch
Leadership - Magia măiestriei

For some leaders, "leading" resembles more to a chess game, a game of cleverness and perspicacity; for others it means a game of chance, a game they think they can win every time risking and betting everything on a single card.

Leadership Puzzle
Leadership Puzzle

I wrote this book that conjoins in a simple way personal development with leadership, just like a puzzle, where you have to match all the given pieces in order to recompose the general image.

Performance in Leading
Leadership - Pe înţelesul tuturor

The aim of this book is to offer you information through concrete examples and to show you how to obtain the capacity to make others see things from the same angle as you.

Leadership for Dummies
Leadership - Pe înţelesul tuturor

Without considering it a concord, the book is representing the try of an ordinary man - the author - who through simple words, facts and usual examples instills to the ordinary man courage and optimism in his own quest to be his own master and who knows... maybe even a leader.