The Final From The Realm Of Exploration
Make proof of your own greatness, without getting lost in the labyrinth of a personality with extremely low empathetic endowments.
The movie "Meet Joe Black (1998)". The last dinner together with all the family members, with only a few days before the long-expected event: the anniversary party of the great businessman Bill Parrish.
Nevertheless, Bill was the only one at the table that seemed not at all enthusiastic about the event. This man ordered in all and everything, he controls even in the moments of relaxation, in the family, every nerve on his face. On his imposing figure, forged like from an alloy resistant to changes, reflecting the perfect combination of two human types, identical by the strength that spread around - of the scientist, which do not defy any laws, and of the judge, which sanction without pity the slightest mistake - you cannot glimpse any smile.
Are you about to develop a selfish and despicable mentality in an attempt to hide your vulnerabilities and protect yourself from further disruptions?
The eldest daughter, Allison, prepared the mini-cake, and he, the only man whom she truly admired, did not want to taste not even a slice of it. Like someone would have stuck with the power of a single thought every gesture, every thrill of his heart, decisively crumbling every trace of feeling. The poor woman, the unfortunate victim of an overwhelming indifference, exhausted by the inner storms that were rising up all her being, draws the sunglasses on her saddened eyes, hoping to hide the tears that flow freely like a river of living water from which emanates all her power, and to which no one dares to touch.
- "The goddamn party ! " Did you hear that? He does not care at all ! Why did I do this? I’m trying to throw the party for the century only in two days for my father, and he doesn’t care about ! "He does not give a shit ! " She exclaimed firmly.
Just as Sigmund Freud has failed not only his academic career, but also the medical practice by his opposition to the mechanical method of neurology, in the same way the great Bill Parrish, precisely as a mathematician in all his plans, authoritative in all levels of his spiritual life, was about to lose the last frost of common sense, the last shred of respect for all that meant "we" in the bosom of his family - by his careless attitude towards his daughter's endeavors.
Are you getting lost in the labyrinth of a personality with extremely low empathetic endowments?
A leader, who has the power to produce the change, and who produces it with that frenzy of the discoverer, captures completely material manifestations, the less apparent ones, of the inner world, moral and spiritual of those around - but first, he loads by himself, fully, relentlessly, the moral and spiritual batteries that feed his existence.
Just as a writer sneaks into the beings of his own thousands of characters, and gets lost in the labyrinth of their existence, living their lives, in the same way, a man as to get closer to excellence in the art of leadership must first communicate his emotions in a positive way, to recognize both of him and of the other ones - without losing himself in the labyrinth of a personality with extremely low empathetic endowments.
Personality can be a proud indulgence, almost despicable to the unknown ones that block you in your decisions, or it may be the essence of a reality from which you cannot escape. It depends on how you respond to unexpected action and the unexpected shape of any reference value.
Suddenly, the man with a heart of stone, the man uncrossed of any emotion - or perhaps, by an impure one, unfiltered by rational and moral, he, who crossed the crisis of "ingratitude" - opens his heart to a single agreement of will. Sesame, open up ! In the eyes of the great Bill Parrish, before so cold, in a moment arises, like to an order the spark of understanding, sparkling like a diamond. He felt, like as the sun gently caresses the earth, his whole creature renewed by excitement and positive energy.
But who? Who stirred up the little room of his soul? Who, what, with what force has repaired to him the major defect of the heart, making it to pump again, continually, soothing, a huge amount of liberating emotions, with very high vibrations, such as joy, love, reason, acceptance?
Bill accomplishes the miracle: takes a slice of cake, tastes it with that pleasure of the man who finds and sips the healing fluid of the unknown disease that affects him, slowly closes his eyes, and breathes deeply, feeling as if the cure is making instantly its effect - then, Eureka ! How good is the cake ! And what beneficial reaction is having the medicine that sweetens the human nature ! For in the next moment, Allison thrills of joy, wipes her tears, appeases his troubled soul; then his gesture is welcomed and followed by the other family members, who dare to taste from the same wonderful cake, from the same type of living essence.
Do you suppress your aspirations to virtue by seeking at any cost a moment of disconnection from what your life had been before?
If you do not want to limit yourself only to the status of leader, but being a man of quality, then do everything possible to not get sick from the disease "from yourself run ". Assume full responsibility for all the emotions which silently limit your performance. These transmissible emotions, that you live in along with other people, are trying you at every step, at any age, attacks you in the most critical circumstances, by hindering your power of empathizing, and making harder the crossing of your optimum way towards excellence.
Self-fleeing, far from the limitations of the ignorance to the world around us, is a strain of instinctive experience of new experiences, a strain that does not succumb to any attraction. It is formed when you fail to optimize the possibilities of addressing and affirming your autonomy as a man of great intellectual finesse.
Are you effective in the areas that you need to endow? Trying to wake up the echoes of your own Ego, without finding the answer to the question: "Why I am not compatible by the way of thinking and feeling with the other people?" It is like you would like to heal the diseases of the soul strictly on the medication way, without previously applying any spiritual therapy.
If you stand against the reality that makes you be as you are, just like a smart computer that performs well its counting, trying to cling at all costs, in a selfish way, to an approach which does not define you, disagreeing yourself to the deep human side of you that touches and excites the others around, then the boundaries between the leadership and your life will become permeable.
Virtue is the quality of staying at the height of your own greatness even when you descend to the level of a consuming experience.
The final from the realm of exploration designates that launch pad for yourself, for your Ego that is constantly hitting by your refusal, like to a wall built of indifference, of unconsciousness, shallowness, or from an unhealthy sort of numbness - to comply yourself with the most precious emotions and feelings, to go forward faithfully on the way towards greatness. Explore your Self before making changes to the spiritual complement of the other people.
An artist would say that it is not important the picture from the wall, but the whole environment, the range of positive or negative experiences of your consciousness that shapes your personality – because exactly the consciousness, this cornerstone of the leadership, loads your interior space with the beneficial fluid of the change and your spiritual development, dictating how and what to do, to behave, say, to love or hate - what specifically you should bring to light, and what to keep hidden.
Make proof of your own greatness, without getting lost in the labyrinth of a personality with extremely low empathetic endowments.
