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Everything Depends on Who Leads

The Only One In Fault In His Fatal Incident

On October 30, 2012
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Basic Leadership by Neculai Fantanaru

Plead for your moral value before the "Honorable Court" of the Leadership without making yourself a partaker in the lawsuit sued against the man and life.

He could not define too well what was happening to him. He fell like a leaf at the feet of the assassin that was wandering the unknown, searching for a goal which would give a meaning to his life. Just a bad dream? Or the blackest nightmare?

He was just simple man, did not have enemies, only one loyal friend who was following him everywhere: oldness. And suddenly, this soul so great, so fearful of God, and so delicate by nature, crashed into the deepest abyss of misery. Lost beyond the edges of the understanding, in a place where it could not be seen anything, but that revealed clearly and threatening the irony of fate.

The assassin, sitting at the wheel of a stolen police car, gave him a notice to pull over. Then, he asked him politely to get off the car.

Poor man ! Could he raise once again the ball of youth in the net of the spectacular, of the dynamic and suspense, to direct an escape like in the movies, and disappear from under the stakeout of the false police officer? Such a risky move was necessary at that time. However, to such a disadvantaged of fate, he remained on the place.

Do you bear the sign of a uniform and consistent personality in its essential tendencies, manifested in one demand: to be anti-choice on someone else’s right to live?

The old man looked fearfully at the strange guy who nailed him with the look at only one step away, seeming more like a ghost just waiting to feast on his kindness, and then to disappear, à volatiliser sans laisser des traces.

Everything was so sinister, as if sinking into a vicious circle. Instantly turned by a hostile fate in the central protagonist of a chaotic cumulation of laws and his own preconceptions, whose contours he could not define, of the huge pyramid of life and reality.

He felt like someone, a force of the evil, oppressed him on the crown the whole burden of the feared world of the human society. A society justified to condemn its eldest members, in pain.

And suddenly the ghost, with the face of a Joker, from a wild impulse, the form of an obscure desire, continuous and brutal to harm anyone who got into his way, arms his weapon, the fatal instrument - an oxygen tube. Slowly approached the piston to the old man’s head. And "Bang ! " triggers the jet of compressed air, by making a big hole in his skull. Leaving him without life.

All in this happening was reduced to a cold and sad convention. In which was set a kind of strict report between the contracting parties: between Christianity and totalitarianism, between the old age and eternity, between kindness and cruelty, between good and evil, between life and death, between Yes and No . *

Do you continue to amaze by enhancing contrast between the essence of your own life experiences and the appearance of your meaning to establish causal relations between actions and events?

You do not have to be an expert to understand what is essential in leadership, and you do not have to be the president of a company to implement these things, these teachings definitive for your own personality.

The first step in the development of the leadership’s science consists in learning to bypass the traps of some risky moves that are required at one time. Finding a refuge before a possible definitive decay, an assurance against some unforeseeable consequences is mandatory.

Define exactly what is happening to you, in relation to the world, events, and the surrounding reality. Without hiding in the shadow of an irreparable wandering, beyond the edges of understanding the reality and the human nature. In a place, where it cannot longer be seen anything, where it cannot longer be corrected anything, where you cannot fortify your immunity, in the place, where you cannot live than with the price of killing the freedom of to be good.

Can you give your leadership the status of a “judge” who pushes you to forgive your foolish acts and decisions, to release yourself from any connection with the requirements of an experimental motivation that can make your ascension difficult?

The leadership is maintained and renewed by a continuous return to your Ego, by the tendency of a bending towards virtue, by finding a way to retrieve yourself in relationship to the responsibility to free yourself from any moral constraint, hidden under the precious cover of a total renewal of personality.

Leadership envisages the contrast between essence and appearance of the man out of you, between of "to be" and "not to be" a review of your good and bad parts, in favor of the consciousness (your inner forum of judgment) to which you cannot hide anything. You can however be impeded by the only request of an experimental motivation that can make your ascension difficult: the desire to push your limits to the extremes of life, as if you are curious to know if you can commit an injustice without bearing the consequences.

The concept of leadership reflects the human quality that takes the cloak of renewal, of the man as a harmonious and balanced unity. Just as the doctor does not treat the patient’s pain until he does not find its source of origin, so your actions cannot be successfully completed, until the knowledge, understanding and the mature thinking does not direct their "votes" towards a deep investigation of the human being’s aspects.

If you do not become by yourself: first, a defendant, then a lawyer, then your own judge that would pronounce the cruel and irreversible sentence "Coupable ou non coupable" you will fall in the deep abyss of human decay.

Resignation is a manifestation of deep emotion that arises as a result of man’s tendency to accept his fate determined by his moralizing side.

As a request for the revision of a preliminary decision submitted by a subtle and very powerful court, the leadership (targeted by your conscience, by the strength of your character, by your responsibility towards society and man) can take over the statute of a "judge" through a thorough examination of those vulnerabilities or irregularities which make you improper with the quality of a human model. Nevertheless, he must not be decided before the new configuration of your personality is fixed.

Moreover, this attempt to raise your leadership to the rank of a judge that is known how difficult it is, does not need to tilt in the opposite direction of your Ego.

The joy of victory without humiliating, without stopping the condition of man to build his own destiny, is a struggle on behalf of the right to life that demands a solid spiritual strengthening, carried on the plan of a reality which can save little by little, its most sensitive side: the concept of non-duality.

Have you become the central protagonist of a chaotic cumulation of laws, preconceptions, whose contours you cannot define? Is your leadership reduced to a cold and sad convention, which provides reducing the "man" into a slave, a passive member of the society? How long can maintain your leadership the statute of a "judge"?

Plead for your moral value before the "Honorable Court" of the Leadership without making yourself a partaker in the lawsuit sued against the man and life.

The Only One In Fault In His Fatal Incident brings to the fore that paralysis of the will, the inability to react in front of some situations of the moment. A leap into the unknown, into a new state, into another kind of "to be" that if you do not make it according to a positive or constructive nature impulse, you risk losing the carriage reserved exclusively for those who have completed their leadership, and assumed their mission of leaders.



* Note: "No Country for Old Men (2007)"

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