Neculai Fântânaru

Everything Depends on Who Leads

Thing Called Love (I)

On January 31, 2016
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Leadership Journal by Neculai Fantanaru

Assume the ability of facing yourself, putting yourself face to face with the idea of a fragment of your story.

I carry within my boundless memory, gathered in a heap, all of those met in an unforgivable past, full of ups and downs, pulling out the elements uncompromised by the pulse of everyday life. It is only a matter tied to the role the sole wishes to take on in this prolonged battle between the living images of my processions through the moving landscapes of the world, recognizing myself beyond any references, and the special effects of my interventions on reality. So here I am, I’m just the same. But you will never know.

Often, I hid my meanings behind an unidentifiable fear, a dimension too broad for me to measure its extent, as a deep and shady fountain, whose bottom is not easy to see, in which I always cast a coin to return to the someone else I once was. Things which I must learn to let go of, shaped around a self-passing disappearance, masking a contrary of the world, the negation of my own being, the abyss of consciousness.

Conjectural, I glimpse only the victory of a total darkness in the face of the light spilling from the plentitude of a part from the answer to a question, poignant as an electric current: Did you live your life just once?

"Share another road", whispers to me the truth of a forgotten eternity, in the face of the need of recognizing myself in an archetypal plane, projecting myself in other roles, wandering through all sorts of worlds and spaces, seeking myself in something that expresses certain ideas and feelings, support structures of my upgrade.

Everyone can read my soul, with its silences, answers, and madness, but will someone manage to move their footing?

Can you turn this world you disclose into a point of reference of your future polishes by using a trigger of the type "Before Delete"?

The main characteristic of leadership is in no way the evocation of a bygone world. But it "feeds" on the assumption of the memory of what you once were, intensifying the need of recognizing yourself in a plane of confessing thoughts and feelings.

The successive accumulations of answers obtained from the impulse of confessions forms true cornerstones of your current framework of thinking and action.

You can turn the world you disclose into a point of reference of your future polishes if you learn to improve not only the specific of your confessions, but especially the content of truths and fakes accumulated. Do not let their contribution and impact be forgotten. Return to your archetype by using the Trigger of the type "Before Delete". This trigger gains the value of an accessory of justifying the possibility of confronting yourself in the context of a detached view of the world cast in the patterns of a universal judgment of human destiny.

Put me face to face with the idea of a fragment from my story, played out through an inciting and interesting confession that, paradoxically, is the opposite of what I believe is expected of me. This constitutes the most banal scene from the representation of a disappearance, followed by a fulminating reappearance, worthy of any magician. Is it just me, I’d like to know / Or are we all just a little blind?

A man climbs the stairs of an apartment building. At around the sixth floor, on the canvass of his memory appears a spot of light. Its outline has the shape of an oval shape that, out of respect and other hidden feelings for the being in the painting instantaneously composed in the memory is, certainly, an Empire frame.

We are all captured by the vivid images of a screen modelled by past experiences, achieving a symbiosis with the invention of the mind in which the images of truths relived are an influential factor.

The highest point of reference for your future refinements is measured by the time you give that fragment of your life story that expresses the ideas and feelings between what you call immediate reality and what derives from what you perceive to be the outer world.

Thing Called Love highlights ideas and feelings that were formed, becoming support structures of your upgrade as a man of the moment.

If you want to place yourself in the top preferences of people who read and try to know you, first put them face to face with the idea of a fragment from your story. Assume the possibility of confronting yourself, improving the content of truths and fakes accumulated over time.

Sometimes the most interesting part of your story is about the role you play in the moment you decide to accept a reality that exceeds your expectations by bringing you into a plan of existence alien to your natural aspirations.



* Note: Above & Beyond feat. Richard Bedford - Thing Called Love

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